9 ways to create an intimate and sexy Valentine's day with your lover

When you think of Valentine's Day, red roses, chocolate, and stuffed animals come to mind. Valentine's Day is the time of year when you can show how passionate you are for your lover. Of course, the gifts and moonlight dinner is only one part of the experience. The real action takes place between the sheets.

If you're fortunate enough to have someone to spend Valentine's Day with, there's a good chance you'll be getting frisky by the end of the night. Yet, being intimate in the usual way just won't do. After all, it's Valentine's Day. The experience should be extra special.

If you want to get extra kinky with your lover this Valentine's Day, here are some tips to make Valentine's Day sexy and unforgettable.

1) Use restraints

Have you watched Fifty Shades of Grey? Have you thought about using restraints to tie your partner up for Valentine's Day? Not only would that be a good idea, but we encourage it. Whether you use actual restraints or a simple handkerchief, tying up your partner will leave them completely at your mercy. You can make the restraints as loose or tight as you want. Of course, this comes down to your comfortability. Experiment and have fun. You might end up liking this kind of sexual play.

2) Hit as many positions as you can

One way to have more fun in bed with your lover is to hit as many sex positions as you can in a single session. Missionary, doggy style, reverse cowgirl. The list is endless. Research positions with your partner during the day so that you can build anticipation for later. If you want to make things more interesting, you should introduce the Eva 2 into the mix. It's a hands-free couples vibrator that stimulates both partners during sex. That's sure to create some unique sensations as you're tossing and turning in various sex positions.

3) Make a movie

Yes, this is exactly what it sounds like. Why not make an x-rated movie with you and your lover as the stars? You can relive your crazy Valentines night together anytime that you want. While you're at it, why not snap some photos while striking provocative poses. Then when it's time for things to get serious you can let the camera roll. Hey, Kim Kardashian did it. Why can't you?

4) Experiment with anal play

Anal sex can be a bit intimidating. It has a reputation for being one of the roughest forms of sex. But in actuality, it can be one of the most pleasurable and intimate. Of course, we would never recommend grabbing a dildo and shoving it in. Anal play is a gradual process that may take some time before your partner feels comfortable. Make sure to go slow and communicate throughout the entire experience. The B-vibe Novice Butt Plug is the perfect sex toy to stimulate your partner's anal region. It small and unintimidating, which is perfect for beginners.

5) Use a blindfold

There's nothing more exciting then blindfolding your partner before engaging in kinky sex. It's strange, exciting, and very intense. You can engage in oral play while your partner squirms with pleasure. Or, you can introduce a toy into the mix to make things more exciting. The Zumio Stimulator is perfect for getting your girl into the mood by stimulating her clitoris with its whirling pulses. If she's wearing a blindfold, she'll never see it coming.

6) Role Play

Have you ever wondered what it was like to have oral sex with a maid? Perhaps you've always fantasized about bending a nurse over an operating table and having your way with her. Most of the time our fantasies only live in our heads. Let them out this upcoming Valentine's Day. From naughty witches to sexy firemen there are thousands of role play ideas for you and your partner to explore together. Since it's such a special day, put aside some money and buy a few sexy costumes. You can transform your room into a scene from your fantasies and enjoy yourself for the rest of the night.

7) Have silent sex

We've already talked about letting the world know what you're up to in the bedroom. Now we challenge you to remain as quiet as you can. No matter what your partner is doing, or how well they're doing it you can't utter a peep. No shouting. No moaning. Not a peep. The first to make noise can be punished (we'll let you figure that part out). Of course, we know that you'll want to be making noise, but that's part of the fun.

8) Let your pleasure be known

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Some of us are silent lovers. There's nothing wrong with that. We challenge you to let the world know that you're having the time of your life on Valentine's night. This may be difficult for you, but it's an exciting challenge that will make sexual play fun and exciting. If you're a female who needs some help getting aroused, you can use On Arousal Oil to get into the mood. This all natural cinnamon based arousal oil slowly tingles. It brings blood flow to the clitoris, which causes you to become aroused in the process.

9) Go lingerie shopping together

There's nothing like walking into a lingerie shop. With its rows upon rows of silk and lace, it wouldn't be surprising if you started to feel aroused before even leaving the shop. Lingerie shopping is one part of the show. Ladies, don't pick out every piece of lingerie. Let your partner pick out a few pieces that they like. After all, it will be for their pleasure when you get home. Plus, feeling good yourself helps you open up to sexual play and pleasure.Model and tease them until they can't stop from ripping off your lingerie. Of course, leaving the lingerie on is also an option.

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