How Using Sex Toys as a Couple Can Enhance Sex

Sex and intimacy are fundamental aspects of a relationship that must be nurtured and tended to in order for those relationships to retain their passion. Most couples understand this but can sometimes find themselves in a slump sexually and feeling unsatisfied. Other couples, while they might love each other dearly, haven’t yet discovered all the ways to fully pleasure their partner in the bedroom. No matter what reason you have for wanting to spice up your sex life, one of the best and easiest ways to enhance intimacy and pleasure is by introducing high-quality sex toys.

Common Misconceptions About Sex Toys and Why Couples Need Them

Sex toys are not just for women and masturbation, as some people might believe. For a long time, society has placed a stigma around adult sex toys and created a misconception that only women use vibrators and dildos. This misconception has also led people to believe that sex toys will compete with the male penis if used in heterosexual relationships, which can make the male feel emasculated or insecure. These myths are simply untrue; however, research has shown that nearly half of men and more than half of all women admit to using sex toys either independently or with their partners. There is reason to believe that these numbers are actually much higher as the study was based on self-reporting.

Male pleasure can also be enhanced through sex toys, even female sex toys. Vibrators can be used on the penis around the head, which many men derive pleasure from. There are also men’s sex toys such as vibrating rings that offer pleasure for both partners. Other male sex toys are designed for prostate stimulation. These toys are not just designed for gay men. Heterosexual men can derive immense pleasure from prostate stimulation as there are hundreds of nerves there that enhance sexual pleasure. Men that aren’t comfortable asking for prostate stimulation from their female partners can easily explore the option by having the sex toys available.

Quality sex toys are tools that are designed to add pleasure and enhance the experience of sex and intimacy. There is no reason to be embarrassed to walk into your local adult store to check out adult sex toys. Unfortunately, not all stores carry the newest sex toys and luxury vibrators. Additionally, although discreet when asked questions, many people who work at sex toy shops do not have much knowledge in order to you find the best sex toy for you. Fortunately, high-quality sex toys and luxury vibrators can be ordered online. Don’t worry. The packaging is always nondescript, so your neighbors and your mailperson will never know what your bedroom secrets are.

Another common misconception about women’s sex toys is that you are limited to either a monstrous dildo or a tiny bullet vibrator. There are hundreds of different sex toys on the market that are designed for many different types of sexual pleasure and have lots of shapes and sizes. However, if you’re a first-time sex toy user, something smaller and more compact could be easier to use, as you’re learning what your body likes. Sex toys are also a great way to experiment with anal play for women and men that aren’t sure about the practice.

Best High-Quality Sex Toys

Not all sex toys are created equally, and it is important to understand the importance of purchasing high-quality sex toys or luxury sex toys. These toys are the best of the best and made with body-safe materials, are powerful, quiet, innovative, durable, and waterproof. Some of these toys can even be controlled through an app or respond through touch.

You should purchase high-end sex toys from companies that vet their toys to ensure that manufacturing is done with rigorous standards. Sex toys are meant to be inserted into your body in the most sensitive places and ensuring that the toys you are using during sex are safe for both partners should be a priority.

We-Vibe Chorus Vibrator is one of our favorite couple’s sex toys. Couples' vibrators are one of the best sex toys for beginners looking to enhance pleasure for both partners during sex and the We-Vibe brand does it better than any others. Some of the great benefits of this product include:

  • Adjustable for a custom fit
  • Two points of stimulation for females—G spot and clitoris
  • Powerful, deep rumbling vibrations
  • Used with the We-Connect app
  • Remote control
  • 2-year warranty
  • Made with body-safe silicone
  • 100% waterproof
  • Recharge battery with USB
  • Compact and body-hugging to fit any body shape

Make sure to use only water-based lubricants with the We-Vibe products and other luxury sex toys and don’t be afraid to use the toy in the shower as it is completely waterproof. This vibrator is also discreet enough to be left on your nightstand and has wireless control through the We-Connect app for smartphones.

Femme Funn Ultra Bullet Vibrator is our favorite for women’s sex toy vibrators that are discreet yet powerful and perfect for first-time sex toy users. Vibrators can be used by both men and women but are designed with the female body in mind. Use this vibrator for independent play or with a partner! Some of the best features of this product are:

  • Small and discreet
  • Quiet but powerful
  • Made from 100% body-safe silicone
  • 100% waterproof
  • USB chargeable
  • 20 vibration modes

Bullet vibrators are perfect for first-time sex toy users because they are unintimidating, compact, small, and allows users to focus on one zone of pleasure at a time. Bullet vibrators can also be used during the massage and need to be used with a water-based lubricant only.

We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Penis Rings are a great first-time sex toy for men because the action is just on the penis shaft, which is what most men are comfortable with. Penis rings help with longer-lasting erections and the vibration provides stimulation for both partners through clitoral stimulation as well. The Pivot is soft and stretchy for nearly all size erect penises and can even be controlled through the smartphone app. Other reasons we love the We-Vibe Pivot Ring:

  • 10 vibration modes
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Stretchy and comfortable
  • Provides stimulation for both partners
  • Can be worn on a dildo or on fingers as well
  • USB rechargeable
  • 100 % waterproof
  • 2-year warranty

When wearing the Pivot, the penis will fit into the contour of the band comfortably, allowing for multiple positions during intercourse. Like all We-Vibe luxury sex toys, the Pivot ring can be used with water-based lubricant only.

Introducing sex toys into the bedroom is one of the best things couples can do to achieve newness and fun in their sexual relationship with each other. With so many different types of sex toys available to couples, the ability to be adventurous in the bedroom and try different things to enhance pleasure is easier than ever before. Couples that are open and able to communicate their sexual desires to one another are proven to have longer-lasting relationships and deeper intimacy. If you’re ready to take your sexual relationships to the next level, don’t be afraid to use high-quality sex toys for foreplay and sex.

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