Top 10 Best Oral Sex Toys & Cunnilingus Toys for Women 2021

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Top 10 Best Oral Sex Toys for Women

This post was last updated on January 6, 2021 at 1:53 p.m.

What Are Oral Sex Toys?

Oral sex, a.k.a. cunnilingus, is an excellent addition to foreplay or instead of penetration. However, to experience oral sex, you need a partner.

Not anymore! You no longer need a partner to experience oral sex thanks to oral sex toys!

Oral sex toys and accessories are a great addition to your sex toy tool box. Many oral sex toys mimic the sensation of a tongue licking your clitoris or a mouth sucking on your clitoris.

Oral sex toys comes in many shapes and sizes. Some feature suction while others feature a licking sensation. Others feature internal G-spot stimulation, as well. No matter which you choose, you'll enjoy your orgasm!


Why Use Oral Sex Toys?

There are many reasons why you might use an oral sex toy:

  • You don't have a partner to perform oral sex
  • You like the feeling of oral sex
  • You have a sensitive clitoris and oral sex toys are more gentle on your clitoris than vibrators
  • Oral sex with your partner makes you uncomfortable

Any or all of these reasons are ok and normal. It's ok to enjoy oral sex whether you are alone or with your partner.

The entire point of oral sex toys is to stimulate your clitoris. Oral sex and oral sex toys are just another way to experience pleasure.

Of course, toys are also called toys for a reason - they add pleasure, fun, and playfulness to your sex life and relationship. They let you explore what feels good, add variety to your sexual play, and experiment with new types of sensation.

Plus, oral sex toys never get tired like your partner's tongue!

What Happens If You Don't Like An Oral Sex Toy?

Give it at least 3-4 tries before you judge the toy. Whenever you try something new, the first couple of times you are focused more on the newness and sometimes awkwardness of the situation. Your body isn’t used to the sensation and your mind might wander a bit. Also, depending on where you are in your menstrual cycle (or even menopause), your body can react differently to sex toys. Your body has different needs during those times, which can affect how well sex toys can work.

It's also important to remember that everyone is different and has a different body. What works for one, may not work for you.

So, there is no one "best" oral sex toy out there - there's only the best oral sex toy for YOU!

Will You Like Oral Sex Toys If You Need A Lot of Power?

Maybe not. Generally, oral sex toys are not for the power hungry. However, it is a very different type of sensation, which you might never have tried before. So, it might be worth exploring.

If you are curious as to what an oral sex toy feels like, we suggest starting off with a less expensive option.

Why Do You Want A High-Quality Oral Sex Toy?

Luxury sex toys are higher quality products. Would you rather have a smartphone or a flip phone? If price were no object, the answer is simple: you would want to have a smartphone.


There are more features, there's more research that goes into it, and it's made better. The same is true with high-quality luxury oral sex toys. They are:

  • made of body-safe materials (rather than toxic chemicals that are harmful to your body)
  • quieter
  • more powerful
  • rechargeable
  • waterproof
  • built to last a long time (and have warranties!)

Luxury sex toy manufacturers maintain rigorous standards for their products. They spend a lot of time and money on research and development. Thus, they stand by their products with at least one-year warranties.

High-quality premium oral sex toys do NOT have:

  • rough seams
  • a rubbery chemical smell like that of a new shower curtain
  • “jelly” materials/latex, which contains rubber

Luxury, quality, and safety come at a price! Remember: you get what you pay for when it comes to sex toys. High-end sex toys are made with body-safe materials. The best materials are non-porous and non-toxic. Medical-grade silicone is often used, which is excellent at transferring vibrations. Silicone sex toys come in many different textures and finishes. Other premium sex toy materials include Elastomed and ABS plastic.

How To Choose An Oral Sex Toy?

Before getting started with oral sex toys, ask yourself these questions:

  1. What size oral sex toy do you want?
  2. Will you use your oral sex toy vibrator for alone or during partner sex or both?
  3. What should your oral sex toy look like? Do you want something discreet, where it doesn't look like a sex toy?
  4. Do you want internal stimulation in addition to clitoral stimulation?
  5. Will you be traveling with your oral sex toy? If you will be traveling with your toy, you will want a travel lock.

Do You Need to Use Lubricant?


Lubrication during sexual play is important. Lube makes solo sex much more pleasurable. Every sensation is enhanced which will allow you to feel every movement at a heightened level. Also, toys tend to dry up as they are exposed to air, making for uncomfortable re-entry.

Most of the time, our bodies produce enough natural lubricant to be comfortable everyday. However, if you are having sex or using toys, you may need more than what nature provides, especially if you are experiencing hormonal changes, on medications or experiencing stress.

Using personal lubricant is not a sign of a broken body or a failed libido. Instead it’s the most normal thing in the world.

We recommend water-based lubricant when using sex toys and silicone-based lube when using non-silicone sex toys or during sex or during sexual play in the shower/bath tub.

Water-Based Lube

Silicone-Based Lube

How To Clean An Oral Sex Toy

Just like other sex toys, make sure to clean your oral sex toy before and after each use. We recommend using sex toy cleaner because it is gentler than your average soap and won't leave a residue.

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Fun Factory Volta



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Fun Factory Volta is a luxury oral sex toy with a split tip that flutters against the clitoris and labia with every vibration.

The movement of Volta’s tips amplifies its vibration. This boosts arousal and heightens sensitivity by stimulating more blood flow. Increased blood flow offers more sensation than ever before. With a deep, powerful vibrator at the bottom, vibration is transferred towards the top of the toy. As soon as the vibrations flow through the tips, they begin to touch and tickle each other.

Volta has the power of a much larger toy yet it is lightweight, quiet, and ergonomic. This luxury vibrator is perfect if you want to add more power to partner sex. The lightweight Volta slips easily between your bodies and gives you the strong vibration you need, without it being in the way.

Her Ultimate Pleasure Stimulator


Starts at $150

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Her Ultimate Pleasure Stimulator is a 3-in-1 luxury vibrator that features simultaneous licking, vibrating, and sucking action. Best for more experienced users, this luxury vibrator and sex toy mimics oral sex with 4 powerful motors.

Part clitoral vibrator, one end features a flicking tongue with a removable textured sleeve and two interchangeable suction cups that engulf your clitoris and entire labia for a realistic, pleasurable oral sex experience.

Her Ultimate Pleasure comes with two clear suction cups - one round and one oval - that are ergonomically designed for the nipples or clitoris and labia. These cups create a pure seal for pulsing suction. Inside the cup is a flicking silicone tongue that also vibrates. The tongue, which stimulates the clitoris, is smooth but also comes with a soft TPE textured sleeve for additional stimulation.

A smooth easy to hold handle at the other end doubles as a large G-spot vibrator. With a 10" handle and its own motor, Her Ultimate Pleasure Stimulator has a smooth curve with a powerful motor at the tip. This part of the stimulator can be used for external pinpoint stimulation or internal G-spot stimulation.

LELO Sila Stimulator



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LELO Sila is a sonic clitoral stimulator and massager that uses gentle sonic waves for pleasure without directly touching your clitoris. The sensation is gentle yet highly stimulating and very intense.

As gentle waves surge from the tip of your clitoris all the way down, with 8 different modes, Sila pulsates, suctions, and stimulates your entire clitoris including the clitoral legs inside your body.

Easy to hold and designed with a larger mouth than most other similar toys, Sila's softer, deeper, and bigger mouth comfortably surrounds your clitoris.

LELO SONA 2 Stimulator


Starts at $99

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Sona 2 is a powerful clitoral stimulator that delivers sonic waves that stimulate the entire clitoris (not just the tip, like traditional vibrators).

That means it doesn't rely on vibrations like a conventional vibrator, which only focuses vibrations on external nerve endings. Instead, its mouth rests gently around the clitoris and emits sonic pulses for contact-free stimulation. Therefore, your clitoris will not become sensitive and you can orgasm over and over again. These sonic waves and pulses stimulate the entire clitoris - not just the external part you can see and touch.

The clitoris is stimulated with a sonic hum for a different kind of orgasm produced by the gentle deep-tissue massage of sonic waves. It's a prolonged climax after a sensual build-up. It's a different, fluttering sensation that resonates through the entire body of the clitoris, building to an orgasm. This orgasm will be unlike anything you have ever experienced.

Baci Stimulator by Lora DiCarlo



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Baci clitoral stimulator and oral sex toy by Lora DiCarlo gives you the sensation of a mouth on your clitoris, while delivering two types of clitoral stimulation simultaneously: vibration (stimulator) and suction (clitoral mouth).

The Clitoral Stimulator is designed to rest against your vulva, pressed against the inner labia and in between the outer labia. This allows the unique smooth ridges of the vibrator to thrum throughout the full body of the clitoris - above and below the surface.

Simultaneously, the Clitoral Mouth is designed to be placed over the glans clitoris (the part of the clitoris you can see) or against any part of the vulva. Micro robotics create the sensation of lips and tongue stroking and sucking your clitoris. The clitoral mouth uses airflow technology to mimic the feeling of a human mouth and tongue lightly sucking and stroking over the clitoris, mimicking your partner.

Filare Stimulator by Lora DiCarlo



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Filare is a unique oral sex toy with three-dimensional pleasure technology that focuses on clitoral massage and feels like a tongue on your clitoris.

While most oral sex toys incorporate a two-dimensional approach to sex toy technology, Filare's design allows the pleasure point stimulation beads to rotate in 3D, meaning the beads rotate circularly while extending outward simultaneously and is very similar to the versatile range of motion of your partner’s tongue. Aside from Filare's ability to deliver sensations that mimic the slow, circular motions of a partner’s tongue at all angles, the external texture feels like soft, supple skin.

The inner pleasure points rotate while extending outward, delivering a broad array of unique sensations. Filare can be applied on the wrists, back of the knees, external perineum, and all over the vulva to gradually build intense sexual energy during foreplay or masturbation. While Filare doesn’t vibrate, the combination of oscillation and intense pulsations can replicate the best elements of a vibrating sex toy.

Ose 2 Stimulator by Lora DiCarlo



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Inspired by human movement and the human touch, Osé 2 by Lora DiCarlo is a dual stimulation vibrator -- stimulating the clitoris and G-spot -- for blended orgasms.

Osé 2 combines a G-spot massager and clitoral mouth to arouse and stimulate both pleasure points simultaneously. With a more accommodating, intuitive fit that has a slightly longer body and more flexibility, you can adjust its position for maximum satisfaction.

The Clitoral Stimulator is designed to replicate the sensation of a mouth and tongue over your clitoris. It presses flat against the vulva and its smooth ridges rest within the outer labia to provide rhythmic thrumming throughout the full body of the clitoris.

Osé's soft G-spot massager mimics the come-hither motion of a finger. Custom settings allow you to determine the length and speed of each stroke against your G-spot.

Satisfyer Luxury Air Pulse Vibrator


Starts at $99.95

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Satisfyer Luxury provides a touch-free clitoral massage that encourages blood circulation and similar sensations to the feeling of oral sex. With the Satisfyer Luxury, you can experience fast and often multiple orgasms -- without over-stimulation or touching your clitoris.

Satisfyer Luxury's Air Pressure Wave stimulation is a touch-free stimulation system, which surrounds the clitoral area within a silicone tip and gently adds pressure waves.

Satisfyer's Air Pulse Vibrators combine the touch-free pressure wave stimulation with added powerful vibrations that circulate from the head, surrounding your clitoris with even more intensity while grounding sensations deeper.

We-Vibe Melt Vibrator



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Melt by We-Vibe is a PleasureAir stimulator and oral sex toy designed for couples. Melt surrounds the clitoris with gentle pulsing waves of air and indirect stimulation that leads to fast and often multiple orgasms.

PleasureAir surrounds your clitoris with pulsating waves and gentle suction to massage your clitoris without over-stimulation or needing to stop.

The curved design of this luxury sex toy is comfortable and easy to hold, while the PleasureAir head is located at Melt's tip. Its slim, curved design fits perfectly between you and your partner in any sexual position so that both of you can orgams together.

Turn on Melt manually or use the free We-Connect app to control Melt from across the room or anywhere in the world. Use We-Connect to play and share control of Melt from anywhere, create custom vibes, and play together with other We-Vibe products.

Womanizer Premium Stimulator



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The Womanizer Premium is a clitoral stimulator that features Pleasure Air Technology. This luxury sex toy creates fast and often multiple orgasms -- without over-stimulation -- and the new autopilot function.

How does it work? The Womanizer directly stimulates the area around the clitoris using vibration and suction. The pleasure cap is placed over the clitoris, making a seal around the clitoris. This creates a comfortable suction that teases and stimulates the clitoris via microprocessor-controlled pressure waves. The end result is a different kind of stimulation with intense orgasms.


With the new autopilot function, you can experience an orgasm unexpectedly in a new way. The rhythm changes every you use the Womanizer Premium. Autopilot is a perfect feature if you are bored with other toys and want a unique experience every single time.

With Smart Silence, this luxury sex toy only starts when it is almost touching the surface of the skin thanks to its sensor. This not only makes it quieter to use but also makes your anticipation and pleasure even more intense.

See all of the different types of Womanizers HERE.