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Top 10 Best Sex Toys for Men
This post was last updated on January 3, 2021 at 1:40 p.m.
Sex toys and vibrators are thought to be just for women. However, today there are many sex toys for men. With higher quality and luxury men's sex toys available, it's very easy for anyone with a penis to add more pleasure to their life!
Not only can the right sex toys for men unlock more sexual pleasure and stimulate pleasurable areas including your prostate, there are also many benefits to using male sex toys. Also, using sex toys with a partner adds fun and variety to your sexual play. Plus, it's a great way to spice things up in the bedroom!
THE BASICS . . .
Male Sex Toy Myth
Currently, there is a lot of focus on women's pleasure and equalizing pleasure between partners. Although about 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, it's much easier for men to orgasm either by their penis or prostate. However, a penis and/prostate can benefit from pleasure too.
There is nothing wrong with you if you choose to use a sex toy. After all, everyone deserves to experience pleasure and sex toys are just another way to experience pleasure!
Why Don't More Men Buy Sex Toys?
In recent times, there has been a massive surge of female sexual empowerment, which is why women can openly talk about self-pleasure without fear of repercussion.
It's all about taboos, and sadly when it comes to sexual gratification, men are often viewed as animalistic and creepy. It doesn't help that sexual stereotypes and masculinity cause men to run away from the idea of using sex toys for self-pleasure. The prevailing thought is that if you're a man, your hand is all you need to get the job done. Even if that's the case, you are missing out on a world of pleasure and exploration.
Why Should Men Use Sex Toys In The Bedroom?
Men's sex toys aren't quite as bad as some people think. Sex toys can improve a man's sex life and are an excellent addition to the bedroom.
Masturbation Can Be Seen As Exciting and Fun
Male pleasure doesn't have to be the animalistic and shameful activity that society has made it out to be. It can be a fun and exciting experience to look forward to. You should be allowed to embrace their sexual urges as they engage in new levels of sexual pleasure with sex toys. When you experience the joys of sex toys, you can begin to view society's negative perceptions of male self-pleasure in an entirely new light.
Give Your Hand A Vacation
What are you to do when you are hot and ready to go, but your partner isn't around or in the mood? Using your hand to achieve an orgasm is great, but it would be nice to give your hand a vacation every once in a while. Sex toys give you the option of changing up the way you approach self-pleasure.
There are many sex toys that are designed to mimic the sensation of anal, oral and vaginal sex. Such toys give men the ability to masturbate in a unique way, thus enhancing the experience.
Sex Toys Allow Men to Maintain Longer Lasting Erections
Even if you don't need help to achieve an erection, it doesn't hurt to be ready to go when your partner is in the mood. Many sex toys help you achieve longer, harder erections.
Gaining A Better Understanding Of Your Body
Sex toys are an excellent way to fully explore your body. Some men, for example, may wish to explore anal play, but don't quite feel comfortable asking their partner to stimulate that area.
Sex toys allow you to quench you curiosity and experience sensations you've never felt before. They give you the ability to experiment with different forms of pleasure and also gives you the ability to try new and exciting things, such as engaging in anal play without the fear of being judged.
"Good" Masturbation Sessions Become "Great"
Let's say your masturbation sessions are perfectly fine without the assistance of toys. So why would you bother wasting your money? Well, that's because sex toys turn your masturbation sessions from "good" to "great!"
Sex toys are tools designed to enhance your sexual experience and pleasure. And if there's any one thing men specialize in, it's tools. Tools are used to fix cars, computers, prepare food, etc. Tools just make things better. So why not use a tool to enhance sexual enjoyment? Using the right tool for the job will most certainly lead to a more pleasurable masturbation session.
Buying Sex Toys Can Be Empowering
Society has tried to train men into thinking that masturbation is a thing to be ashamed of. Indeed, there are many men who experience feelings of guilt and shame while masturbating. Thus, it can be difficult to put yourself out there as a man to buy that first sex toy.
However, when that first purchase actually happens, you could say that you will undergo a bit of a metamorphosis. Overcoming the stigmas of society allows you to empower yourself and take your self-pleasure into your own hands. It allows you to enjoy your time alone without experiencing feelings of shame and guilt.
Types of Sex Toys for Men:
Anal vibrators are vibrators meant for the anus and need to have a flared base. Many anal vibrators are curved to stimulate the prostate.
Masturbators and Masturbation Sleeves
Masturbators for men, masturbation sleeves, strokers are sex toys for men that offer different sensations from your/your partner’s hands, a mouth, or a vagina/anus. Many strokers are manual and need you to rub them up and down your shaft. However, there are lots of masturbators for men that vibrate and are even hands-free!
Penis Pumps and Extenders
Penis pumps draw blood into the penis. This cause the penis to be larger and/or have more girth. Penis pumps provide suction, which feels good to many people. A penis extender applies traction to your penis and stretches it over a longer period of time – up to 6 hours per day. The constant stretching of the penis causes natural cell division, which results in a longer and thicker penis.
These sex toys for men are worn around the shaft of the penis keeping the blood flow in the penis creating stronger, fuller, and longer-lasting erections. Penis rings can also be worn around the shaft and the scrotum. This delays ejaculation and creates stronger orgasms. Penis rings can vibrate so that when used during couples play, your partner feels the vibration on her clitoris/vulva. If you turn a vibrating penis ring upside down, your perineum will also experience vibration for even more pleasure.
The prostate or P-spot is similar to the G-spot. It is very sensitive to massage and vibrations. Enjoying a prostate massage does not make you a homosexual. A regular prostate massage removes toxins and reduces the risk of prostatitis and prostate cancer. Prostate massages also improve erectile function and circulation of seminal fluid. An added bonus, it that many people believe that a prostate orgasm, where you do not ejaculate, is much better than a penile orgasm.
The top . . .
SEX TOYS FOR MEN
BEST DUAL-MOTOR MASTURBATOR: Jett by Hot Octopuss
The Jett delivers an intense orgasm. Worn against the frenulum, below the tip of the penis, Jett's flexible and stretchy sleeve expands, enabling you to easily go from flaccid to erect - completely hands-free.
Incredibly versatile, Jett is the first luxury masturbator that allows you infinite choice over the strength and frequency of vibration. Powered by two custom ‘bullet’ vibrators, each contains a different sized motor. These different motors deliver contrasting vibration frequencies. The Treble Bullet emits intense high-frequency waves, while the Bass Bullet delivers deep, rumbly low-frequency stimulation. You can use each bullet separately or together to find the right strength and frequency of vibration and stimulation for an intense hands-free orgasm.
Jett's innovative, soft silicone sleeve fits your penis no matter your size. It expands as you do, taking you effortlessly from flaccid to erect and enabling you to reach orgasm hands-free.
BEST HANDS-FREE MASTURBATOR: Pulse SOLO and DUO by Hot Octopuss
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Whether you want a male vibrator for solo play (Pulse SOLO Essential or SOLO Lux) or couples play (Pulse DUO or DUO Lux), the Pulse is the best discreet and powerful vibrating masturbator on the market. The Pulse SOLO and DUO vibrator for men uses strong oscillations on the frenulum, one of the most sensitive areas of the penis, for an amazing orgasm!
This best-selling masturbator for men is a hands-free sex toy, and it can be used with a hard or flaccid penis, which is excellent if you experience erectile dysfunction.
BEST STROKER FOR BLOW JOBS: B Swish Bhandy Classic Pearl
The B Swish Bhandy Classic Pearl is a compact open-ended masturbation sleeve that will maximize your orgasm during masturbation or oral sex.
The silky soft interior texture of the Bhandy Classic Pearl is made with super soft 100% body-safe TPE with a textured channel designed for more stimulation.
Intensify any blow job with this stroker. With a double opening design, your partner can take the head of your penis in their mouth, while using Bhandy Classic Pearl on your shaft.
The Bhandy Classic Pearl is very easy to clean and store. The sleeve is removable making it very easy to clean. Easy snap-on protective caps protective the sleeve when not in use.
BEST STROKER: Tenga Flip Zero
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The Tenga Flip Zero is a discreet masturbation sleeve that also includes suction. It has the most intricate textures, which stroke your penis and help you feel different sensations. You can adjust the amount of suction and pressure for more or less stimulation.
What makes this toy unique is the design: flip it open for super easy lube application and cleaning. (We recommend only using water-based lubricant.)
BEST BJ MASTURBATOR: VEDO Hummer
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The Hummer is a sleek suction masturbator and hands-free BJ machine that simulates a blow job with innovative suction technology and electricity!
This luxury sex toy for men is designed to give you the feeling of oral satisfaction. There are 5 functions and 5 speeds so that you can customize how your BJ experience feels. The Hummer features a solid motor housing with speed and suction control buttons and nearly 6 feet of tubing. Coated in firmer, easy to grip silicone, the stroker sleeve is soft and clingy.
Fully automated, the Hummer is a hands-free, remote-controlled masturbator that offers 25 speeds and up to 109 suction impulses per minute. There are two sets of function keys on the box, one controls 5 modes of intensity and the other controls 5 speed levels. Use the keys to adjust the space between each suck and/or overall sucking speed.
For even more stimulation, add the Vedo Hummer Textured Sleeve!
BONUS: VEDO Hummer 2.0 BJ Masturbator
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The Hummer 2.0 has super-charged suction and electricity! With a top speed of 180 RPMs and 180 suction impulses per minute, this hands-free, sucking, stroking, BJ machine is very powerful.
Hummer 2.0 has 9 gears. The first gear allows you to control 6 different speeds – from slow to go - of the BJ machine. The first gear will help you increase your sexual stamina, enhance performance, and intensify those orgasms.
The second through ninth gears are similar to oral simulation. Eight fully-automatic suction modes with 4 minute sessions and unpredictable BJ patterns will give you a completely random, realistic blow job every time.
The 6.5 inch deep textured sleeve vibrates on its own with a press of a button. This detachable vibrating stroker can be used with or without the BJ machine.
Fully automated, the Hummer 2.0 is a hands-free and remote-controlled masturbator.
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BEST COCK RING: Laid P3 Penis Ring
Penis rings constrict blood flow and keep the blood in the shaft of your penis. When you finally do ejaculate, the sensation is much more intense because it took longer to ejaculate since the penis is filled with additional blood. Also, a penis ring allows the wearer to stay harder for much longer.
If you are new to penis rings, the best one to start with is a luxury ring made of 100% silicone that stretches to fit the penis. Penis rings are designed to help you last longer by constricting blood blow to the penis. This will result in a more intense orgasm. When wearing the Laid P3 Penis Ring, this luxury sex toy also stimulates the testicles and the perineum.
BEST VIBRATING COCK RING: We-Vibe Pivot Penis Ring
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We-Vibe Pivot is a high-quality luxury vibrating cock ring that is made with super soft silicone, is rechargeable, is 100% waterproof, and is remotely controlled. Although it looks small, it stretches to fit any size penis. It can be used in couples play for extra vibration (on the vulva and clitoris) or solo play to stimulate the scrotum.
You can connect the We-Vibe Pivot to your smartphone with the free We-Connect app for more features including creating your own vibration patterns. Also, you can use your smartphone as a remote control and connect with your partner regardless of where you both are in the world!
BEST PROSTATE MASSAGER: Aneros Helix Syn Trident
Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Massager is a hands-free sex toy and prostate stimulator that is super comfortable and smooth for a mind-blowing prostate orgasm whether you are a beginner or advanced user.
Combining the original Helix design with a solid inner frame that maintains the rigidity necessary for an amazing prostate massager, the Helix Syn Trident has:
- A larger angled head for greater more focused stimulation
- Modified "W" arms for external perineum stimulation
- A contoured body that is great for beginners and advanced users
- Super soft silicone
Medically researched and designed, the Aneros remains the only patented device of its kind. With its 4 inch insertable length and curved design, the Aneros Helix Syn Trident is a hands-free sex toy with a self-pivoting mechanism that simultaneously massages the prostate (male G-spot) and perineum giving you the most intense orgasm that you have ever had.
BEST VIBRATING PROSTATE MASSAGER: LELO Hugo
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Hugo is the Cadillac of luxury prostate massagers and vibrators. This luxury men's sex toy is very powerful and recommended for advanced users. The remote control makes it very easy to change vibration settings during a prostate massager. LELO Hugo (and it’s brother, Bruno, which comes without the remote control) is an excellent prostate massager for hands-free stimulation.
With a motor located in the tip to stimulate the prostate and a second motor in the base to stimulate the perineum, this LELO vibrator has the benefit of dual stimulation for more pleasure. Its base is flexible so you can place it right where you want it. Its shape also allows for easy insertion and keeps it in place once inserted for comfortable hands-free stimulation.
BEST ADJUSTABLE VIBRATING PROSTATE MASSAGER: We-Vibe Vector
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Designed in collaboration with leading prostate experts for comfort, safety, and pleasure, Vector by We-Vibe is a custom-fit vibrating prostate massager and male sex toy that stimulates both the prostate and the perineum.
Vector's adjustable head applies firm yet gentle pressure on the prostate, and Vector's base is flexible yet stable while stimulating the perineum. This luxury sex toy for men has two motors that work together to stimulate both the prostate and the perineum with rumbling vibrations and gentle pressure.
You can control both motors independently and change the speed and vibration modes with the easy-to-use wireless remote control or the free We-Connect app. Use We-Connect to play and share control of Vector from anywhere, create custom vibes and play together with other We-Vibe products. You can also control the Vector by simply using the on/off button.
Although nothing compares to your hands and fingers, the best male sex toys are there to add more pleasure! There are plenty of sex toys for men to compliment your perfection. Try one today! You'll never know how good it can be until you try it yourself.
Afterall, don't you like pleasure AND aren't you worth it?
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