Top 10 Best Sex Toys for Women Who Have Trouble Orgasming 2023

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Top 10 Best Sex Toys For Women Who Have Trouble Orgasming chosen by a Sex Educator. Shop online for luxury sex toys for women at My Secret Luxury. Always fast and free shipping. Do you have trouble having an orgasm? If so, you are not
alone. An estimated 15 percent of women have never orgasmed. Luckily for you, research has found regular use of a vibrator, whether you use it alone or with a partner has been  linked to positive sexual function, including
increased desire and improved ability to reach orgasm. THE BASICS . . .

Why Do You Have Trouble Having An Orgasm? There are many reasons that you are unable to orgasm, including:

  • Low libido and lack of interest in sex
  • Hormones
  • Anxiety
  • Birth control
  • Children
  • Confidence
  • Depression
  • Lack of exercise & poor diet
  • Lack of sleep
  • Low testosterone, estrogen, progesterone, oxytocin levels
  • Medication
  • PMS
  • Relationship problems
  • Stress

Another reason that you might have trouble orgasming is because you don’t know you CAN. Many people with vulvas think that orgasms are only for penises. WRONG!!! Orgasms are for everyone — no matter if you are straight, gay, what sex you identify with as or are single or part of a couple. Finally one last reason that you can’t orgasm might be because you are not sure what is pleasurable and feels good. The only way to figure out what you like or don’t like to to experiment and try new things! We think you will be surprised at what you learn — not only about your orgasms but about yourself. Moreover, there are amazing healthy benefits of having an orgasm!Everyone is different and everyone’s body is different. What makes your friend orgasm might not work for you and vice versa. Low Libido We feel the need to highlight libido and many womens’ lack of it. Many women who have trouble orgasming have issues because they have low libido and don’t feel like sex. Losing the desire for sex is common and for good reason; there are very real biological components that exist like stress, lack of sleep, medication, etc. Scientific research prove the role sex toys play in a healthy libido. A woman’s hormone pattern affects her libido causing her sex drive to differ during her 28-day cycle. A vibrator and sex toys can enhance the sexual experience, rather than diminish interest, boosting a woman’s libido and sexual drive. Sex Toys That Help A Woman Orgasm There are many sex toys for women that can help if you have trouble having an orgasm. We chose the best luxury sex toys that have helped many women experience pleasure. The top . . . 10 BEST SEX TOYS FOR ORGASMING in 2022


Le Wand Petite is the smaller version of the Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager, a modern and rechargeable version of the classic wand massager. Powerful and focused vibrations in the head of the Le Wand Petite allows for penetrating pleasure. With 10 speeds and 6 rumbly vibration patterns and different attachments, you can have a different experience each time you use Le Wand. Body-safe with a sleek silicone head, Le Wand Petite is designed to rotate 360 degrees. This allows the vibrations to resonate through your body without causing any friction or overstimulation. The flexible neck and a lengthy handle with easy-to-use controls allows for smooth maneuvering.

BEST SUCTION: Womanizer Classic 2

The Womanizer Classic 2 is the classic version of the Womanizer stimulator and sex toy for women, which features Pleasure Air Technology that creates fast and often multiple orgasms — without over-stimulation. Pleasure Air gently stimulates the clitoris without touching it. The clitoris is sucked gently into the soft silicone tip and is surrounded with gentle and massaging air waves. The combination of suction and massaging air waves leads to stimulation but not over-stimulation or needing to stop. You should be able to orgasm within a few minutes. How does it work? The Womanizer Classic 2 directly stimulates the area around the clitoris using massaging air waves and suction. The pleasure cap is placed over the clitoris, making a seal around the clitoris. This creates a comfortable suction that teases and stimulates the clitoris via microprocessor-controlled pressure waves. The end result is a different kind of stimulation with intense orgasms. Pleasure Air Technology features the perfect balance between pulsating and massaging changes in air pressure without touching the clitoris. This ensures that the approx. 8,000 nerve endings are never over-stimulated leading to a new kind of extraordinary orgasm. Unlike standard vibrators, the Womanizer Classic 2 does not overstimulate the clitoris or causes the clitoris to be overly sensitive. There are lots of different Womanizers suction toys to choose from depending on your budget and the features that you want. No matter which you choose, all Womanizers will help you if you have trouble orgasming.


Melt by We-Vibe is a PleasureAir stimulator and sex toy is designed to be used during sex. Melt sex toy surrounds the clitoris with gentle pulsing waves of air and indirect stimulation that leads to fast and often multiple orgasms — without over-stimulation. The curved design of this luxury sex toy is comfortable and easy to hold, while the PleasureAir head is located at Melt’s tip. Melt sex toy’s slim, curved design fits perfectly between you and your partner in any sexual position so that both of you can climax together. PleasureAir surrounds the clitoris with pulsating waves and gentle suction. Waves of air massage the clitoris with sensations and 12 intensity levels that range from gentle kisses to stronger suction as you increase intensity.


SONA 2 is a powerful clitoral stimulator that delivers sonic waves that stimulate the entire clitoris (not just the tip, like traditional vibrators). Sonic waves reach all parts of the clitoris — the pearl part, which you can see at the top of the clitoris and the clitoral legs, which you can’t see. SONA 2 doesn’t rely on vibrations like a conventional vibrator, which only focuses vibrations on external nerve endings. Instead, SONA 2’s mouth rests gently around the clitoris and emits sonic pulses for contact-free stimulation. Therefore, your clitoris will not become sensitive and you can orgasm over and over again. The clitoris is stimulated with a sonic hum for a different kind of orgasm produced by the gentle deep-tissue massage of sonic waves. It’s a  prolonged climax after a sensual build-up. It’s a different, fluttering sensation that resonates through the entire body of the clitoris, building to an orgasm. This orgasm will be unlike anything you have ever experienced.


Maybe your body needs more stimulation to orgasm — both externally and internally. If so, that’s ok. The Osé 2 combines clitoral suction and G-spot stimulation for a blended orgasm. Inspired by human movement and the human touch, Osé 2 by Lora DiCarlo is a dual stimulation vibrator — stimulating the clitoris and G-spot — for blended orgasms. Osé 2 combines a G-spot massager and clitoral mouth to arouse and stimulate both pleasure points simultaneously. With a more accommodating, intuitive fit that has a slightly longer body and more flexibility, you can adjust its position for maximum satisfaction. And with a smaller G-spot massager and a wider range of power on the Clitoral Stimulator, Osé 2 offers you a unique, customizable experience that works across even more bodies. The Clitoral Stimulator is designed to replicate the sensation of a mouth and tongue over your clitoris. It presses flat against the vulva and its smooth ridges rest within the outer labia to provide rhythmic thrumming throughout the full body of the clitoris. Choose from 10 intensity levels to find just the right amount of stimulation. Osé’s soft G-spot massager mimics the come-hither motion of a finger. A 9.5% smaller shaft helps you get just the right amount of pressure. Custom settings allow you to determine the length and speed of each stroke against your G-spot.

BEST RABBIT: We-Vibe Nova 2

If your body requires power — both externally and internally — and prefers a blended orgasm of the clitoris and G-spot, then a rabbit vibrator might be the key to your success. Nova 2 is We-Vibe’s ergonomic luxury dual stimulation rabbit vibrator that that flexes with your movements and adjusts to your body while simultaneously stimulating the G-spot and clitoris for a blended orgasm. The ergonomic design includes an adjustable internal G-spot stimulator to fit your body. The adjustable shaft provides added stability, is easy to adjust, and then stays in place once you’ve found the perfect fit. Unlike other rabbit vibrators, Nova’s super soft external arm flexes when you thrust the toy inside of you. The benefit of this unique design allows this luxury sex toy to never lose contact with the clitoris — so that you always stimulate the clitoris. Nova’s ergonomic handle makes this luxury sex toy easy to use thanks to a comfortable grip.

The shape is easy to adjust and stays in place once the perfect fit is found, ensuring non-stop, comfortable one-handed pleasure inside and out.


If you think penetration will help you orgasm along with clitoral stimulation, then you should consider the Snail Vibe. Created with scientifically backed research and development, the Snail Vibe stimulates your clitoris and penetrates your vagina while simulating sex like no other dual stimulation vibrator. With two individual motors, each with 5 speeds and 5 modes (resulting in over 600 possible combinations), Snail Vibe allows for customization of both erogenous zones to fit your needs. Snail Vibe e offers the greatest amplitude of dual stimulation – 7 times more than other vibrators and allows you to adjust the effect on two erogenous zones directly during stimulation. Snail Vibe boasts the vibrating power of a wand massager, the insertion depth of a dildo, and the dual stimulation of a rabbit vibrator. This luxury sex toy combines eight types of stimulation and replaces all three types of sex toys at the same time.

BEST BULLET: Lora DiCarlo Drift

Drift is a warming bullet vibrator and luxury sex toy for women. Featuring an angled curve to provide control and stability while held in your hand, Drift’s contoured tip features a raised stimulation point, delivering enhanced tissue stimulation. Drift’s warming feature creates a lush experience, just above body temp, for a realistic, relaxing touch. The benefits of warmth can help stimulate your blood flow, relax your external muscles during use, and enhance your overall pleasure for a more enhanced sensory experience from start to finish. Drift’s ergonomic design curves to your body, pleasuring both outside and in. Its external stimulation point was designed to deliver deeper, more precise stimulation to your vulva, encouraging G-spot and clitoral exploration.

BEST INTERNAL: Lora DiCarlo Sway Sway by Lora DiCarlo is a doubled sided warming vibrator with two independent motors for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. Anatomically contoured, Sway features two different sized ends. Smooth curves and a raised stimulation point on one end is ideal for G-spot exploration, while the larger end provides perineal pleasure. Sway is easy to hold and is also an excellent luxury sex toy for clitoral stimulation. Due to Sway’s length, it’s super easy to go from external to internal stimulation. Every side is Sway’s good side. Its dual ended motors on each side vibrate and stimulate with powerful intense rumbly vibrations, creating simultaneous sensations. Sway’s warming feature creates a lush experience, just above body temp, for a realistic, relaxing touch. Sway’s internal heating mechanism delivers pinpointed, targeted heat on both ends of the wand vibrator. The benefits of warmth can help stimulate your blood flow, relax your external muscles during use, and enhance your overall pleasure for a more enhanced sensory experience from start to finish.

BEST 3-in-1:Fun Factory Sundaze

Sundaze is not just a vibrator. Using patented new technology, Fun Factory Sundaze moves from zingy to rumbling vibration, but also to light tapping that stimulates like nothing else. The pulsing and stroking motions and hands-free thrusting offer internal or external stimulation. Most vibrators only stimulate one kind of nerve ending. Sundaze stimulates three kinds, which can help you if you have trouble orgasming. Different nerve endings process different kinds of sensation. This thrusting vibrator is excellent if you are sensitive or if you require a lot of power. After using this luxury sex toy, sex with a partner actually feels more intense, not less.


ON Clitoral Arousal Oil is a best-selling all-natural clitoral stimulant that helps you achieve stronger, more intense orgasms. In some cases, this oil can be used to treat and resolve decreased sensitivity in the clitoris and vulva due to age or other factors. Excellent for anyone with a clitoris — no matter what age — who want to get aroused quicker or have trouble having an orgasm, ON has created an oil-based clitoral stimulant. Shockingly powerful, this arousal oil uses a proprietary blend of essential oils and botanicals including sweet almond oil and Cinnamomum cassia to create a safe, natural arousal effect unlike any other. This clitoris oil is created in small batches to ensure that the highest level of quality is maintained in each and every bottle. Almost upon application, unlike other stimulating gels and oils, ON Clitoral Arousal Oil offers an immediate warming effect. It then moves to a buzzing, vibrating, and pulsating sensation on the clitoris that causes blood to rush to the nerve endings and increase sensitivity. When this increase in blood flow occurs, every touch becomes heightened and the entire vulva becomes a magnet for intense, sexual pleasure. Most importantly, ON’s clitoral stimulant allows those with a clitoris to achieve orgasm easier. Using ON Arousal Oil will help the body respond more easily to physical stimulation, and give the type of full-body awareness that raises arousal levels. Applying this product during foreplay can help a couple increase their sexual intimacy and create a more dynamic sexual experience. Another wonderful benefit of ON Arousal Oil is that it may actually help some women increase their production of personal lubrication. This may be extremely helpful for women going through hormonal changes or taking medications that tend to decrease their body’s ability to self-lubricate. Increased clitoral sensitivity often triggers the body to self lubricate in greater amounts, which reduces the need for personal lubricant. When used with a sex toy and with a good deal of foreplay, like nipple stimulation and oral sex, this arousal oil can lead to the ultimate, earth-shattering sexual release.