Top Best Masturbators for Men 2021

Top Best Masturbators for Men 2021

Posted by Sexual Health Educator on 24th Dec 2020

See our picks for the top best masturbators and sex toys for men for more sexual pleasure.

Best Masturbators for Men 2021

This post was last updated on December 23, 2020 at 11:01 am.

Sex toys for men are becoming more and more popular and mainstream. (Women can't have all the fun, right?) The hottest male sex toys are masturbators, which are different and some believe much better than their own hand. They are a great addition to anyone's toy box.


What are Masturbators for Men?

The best masturbation toys for men or masturbation sleeves include adult sex toys with a hole and a carved out tunnel for you to insert your penis. Designed in a variety of shapes and styles, some are realistic-looking, while others are more discreet. No matter what they look like, all masturbation sleeves are designed to feel similar to vaginal, anal, or oral sex. Used with lots of personal lubricant, they create different sensations for your penis.

Why Would You Want A Masturbator?

Sometimes, men want something different from their hand. A male masturbator offers different sensations, whether it is different textures, suction or vibration. Many men use these toys whether they are single or in a relationship.

Why Do You Us A Masturbator?

Masturbation sleeves are fun for solo or partner play. Some open-ended ones can enhance oral sex where your partner can use it to stroke your shaft while they focus on the head of your penis.

Types of Masturbators

There are two types of masturbators and masturbation sex toys for men:

  • Non-Vibrating
  • Vibrating


Non-vibrating masturbators are also called strokers or masturbation sleeves. These types of sex toys for men require you to move the toy up, down, and around your penis.


Vibrating masturbators are also called male vibrators. Some vibrators are hands-free leaving so that you can concentrate on other things.

How Do You Use A Masturbator?

Personal lubricant is definitely needed with masturbation sleeves. In fact, thinner lubes are easiest to use with masturbation sleeves, as they can penetrate all the nooks & crannies! We recommend male lubricant that is designed specifically for men. Depending on the material, the best male masturbation toys work best with water-based lubricant. Our favorite is Sliquid Ride Bodyworx.

Don't forget the lube!

Once you have lubed up, all you have to do is stick your penis in and start moving the masturbator up, down and around.

Or, if it's a hands-free sex toy, let the toy do all the work.

How Do You Clean A Masturbator?

Masturbators can be washed with soap and warm water or sex toy cleaner and need to be dried completely. (Except Fleshlights - DO NOT use soap - warm water only!!) Powdering some masturbators with toy power, such as Think Clean Thoughts Antibacterial Toy Powder, can help maintain the silky, skin-like feel.

The top . . .





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The B Swish Bhandy Classic Pearl is an open-ended masturbation sleeve that will maximize your orgasm during masturbation or oral sex.

The silky soft interior texture of the Bhandy Classic Pearl will intensify your orgasm during solo play or oral sex. Intensify any blow job with this compact stroker. With a double opening design, your partner can take the head of your penis in their mouth, while using Bhandy Classic Pearl on your shaft. The super soft 100% body-safe TPE sleeve of this compact stroker has a textured channel designed for more stimulation.

The Bhandy Classic Pearl is very easy to clean and store. The sleeve is removable making it very easy to clean. Easy snap-on protective caps protective the sleeve when not in use.




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The Tenga Flip Zero is a modern and discreet masturbation sleeve that uses the finest premium materials and the most intricate internal texturing details with added suction for ultimate pleasure.

The opening for the penis provides the perfect seal, preventing lubricant from leaking and forming a strong vacuum seal made possible by the one-way valve.

The internal details are very complex and stimulating:

  1. The Ridge Wall's ridges hugs your penis from both sides
  2. The Ripple Dome grasps your shaft while rippling edges stimulate your shaft
  3. An outer layer covers the end orb which stimulates the tip of your penis from all angles

Easy to hold, the Flip Zero's pressure pads on the side of the toy are soft to the touch and allow for greater stimulation because of the suction it creates. The Flip Zero is also a great way to build stamina.

The Tenga Flip Zero has an integrated pivot and a flip-open hinge for seamless insertion, simple use and easier cleaning.




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ArcWave Ion is a Pleasure Air stroker and masturbator, where pulsating airwaves stimulate your sensitive Pacinian pleasure receptors in the frenulum.

Experience powerful stimulation based entirely on pulsating airwaves. The ArcWave Ion targets the pleasure receptors in the frenulum at the tip of the penis, creating an intense orgasm. It is an innovative new type of stimulation that is based entirely on changes in air pressure to target highly sensitive nerve endings, leading to a powerful new type of orgasm.

Orgasms can be more intense and more varied. You might feel a more varied build up, waves of sensation, and a powerful release. Pleasure Air uses pulsating airwaves to suck and massage your penis to a brand-new type of orgasm, one that is not achievable by stroking alone.

ArcWave is only on when it should be on. Using advanced sensor technology, ArcWave Ion's stimulation starts and stops automatically as Ion senses skin contact. Smart Silence has 8 intensity levels to choose from, and you will never worry about any unwanted noise again.

BEST VERSATILE: Fun Factory Manta



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The sleek, easy-to-hold Manta Vibrating Stroker and Masturbator is designed to be used during partner sex and solo play.

The unique shape of the manta ray shape allows for better coverage. Plus, the “wings” and the cleft in the center also enhance the power of the motor, adding movement to the vibration. If you add water-based lubricant to the ridges of this luxury male vibrator, it will make for a better stroking sensation. The design keeps your lube evenly distributed for just the right amount of slide. Also, its ergonomic shape lets you stroke comfortably. Finally, the wand-style design means that the vibration will be on your penis -- not your hand.

During couples play, slide Manta between your bodies and you will turn your penis into a vibrator! For oral sex, slide the Manta down your shaft for a blowjob accessory that feels like your partner is circling the back of the penis for a deep-throat feel.

BEST DUAL MOTOR: Jett by Hot Octopuss



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Jett is a hands-free masturbator that is worn against the frenulum, just below the tip of the penis that delivers an intense orgasm. Jett’s flexible and stretchy sleeve expands, enabling you to easily go from flaccid to erect - completely hands-free.


Incredibly versatile, Jett is the first luxury masturbator that allows you infinite choice over the strength and frequency of vibration. Powered by two custom ‘bullet’ vibrators, each contains a different sized motor. These different motors deliver contrasting vibration frequencies. You can use each bullet separately or together to find the right strength and frequency of vibration and stimulation for an intense hands-free orgasm.

Jett's innovative, soft silicone sleeve fits your penis no matter your size. It expands as you do, taking you effortlessly from flaccid to erect and enabling you to reach orgasm hands-free.



Starts as $129

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LELO F1s is a luxury male vibrator and masturbator. A vibrating masturbation sleeve like no other that with two motors uses both vibration and sonic waves for the deepest orgasm you will ever have.

  • Dual internal motors to produce a series of intense sensations within the chamber with sonic waves, SenSonic technology
  • 10 highly sensitive performance sensors in which it automatically monitors, controls, and manages your rhythm
  • Curved grooves run along the inside of the body-safe silicone sleeve for more pleasure
  • Hands-free with Cruise Control
  • 3-button controls are easy to reach and manipulate
  • A clear window panel for your viewing pleasure
  • A free app is your remote control and allows you to access the LELO SDK (Software Developer Kit).
  • Rechargeable and waterproof




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Vedo Hummer is an ergonomically designed vibrating masturbator, stroker, and luxury sex toy for men that simulates a blow job.

This luxury sex toy for men is designed to give you the feeling of a blow job. There are 5 functions and 5 speeds so that you can customize how your BJ experience feels. The Hummer features a solid motor housing with speed and suction control buttons and nearly 6 feet of tubing.

Fully automated, the Hummer is a hands-free, remote-controlled masturbator that offers up to 109 suction impulses per minute.

Add the Vedo Hummer Textured Sleeve with your Hummer for maximum stimulation. The crystal clear sleeve transparent and clear so you can see everything for even more stimulation, while the texture inside the sleeve adds sensation.




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The Hummer 2.0 is more powerful than the original Hummer with super-charged suction and electricity and has a detachable vibrating stroker.

Fully automated, the Hummer 2.0 is a hands-free and remote-controlled masturbator with a top speed of 180 RPMs and 180 suction impulses per minute.

Hummer 2.0 is a luxury sex toy for men with 9 gears. The first gear allows you to control 6 different speeds – from slow to go - of the BJ machine. The first gear will help you increase your sexual stamina, enhance performance, and intensify those orgasms.

The second through ninth gears are similar to oral simulation. Eight fully-automatic suction modes with 4 minute sessions and unpredictable BJ patterns will give you a completely random, realistic blow job every time.

BEST HANDS-FREE: Pulse by Hot Octopuss


Starts as $99

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If you want a powerful male vibrator to either use alone or with a partner, you should try the best-selling Pulse. This luxury male masturbator and sex toy has powerful oscillation technology. This oscillator -- not a vibrator -- generates very deep vibrations on the most sensitive area of the penis: the frenulum.

The Pulse hands-free male vibrator can be used with a flaccid (or erect penis), making it excellent for men suffering from erectile dysfunction. Pulse SOLO is meant for solo masturbation, while Pulse DUO is meant to be used with a partner because of the remote control and added vibration on the underside of the toy.

BEST VIBRATING SLEEVE: Tenga Flip Zero Vibration



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The Tenga Flip Zero Vibration is a modern and discreet masturbation sleeve that uses the finest premium materials and the most intricate internal texturing details with added vibration and suction for ultimate pleasure.

This luxury male vibrator has two vibrating motors inside the elastomer sleeve, which provides rumbly sensations with each stroke throughout the entire masturbator. You can enjoy vibrations by pressing the button on the bottom of the sex toy and enjoy 5 different vibration patterns. The internal structure is designed specifically to complement and enhance the vibration sensations.

After inserting your penis, the pressure pads can be used to manually control the pressure. Or, you can squeeze out the internal air to create a strong vacuum suction. The repeating edges on the inside give a hugging sensation on both sides of the shaft.

The Flip Zero's pressure pads on the side of the toy are soft to the touch and allow for greater stimulation because of the suction it creates. The Flip Zero Electronic Vibration Masturbation Sleeve is also a great way to build stamina.