Top 10 Best Sex Toys You Can Use With Your Phone

Posted by Sexual Health Expert on 2nd Feb 2021

Top 10 Best Sex Toys You Can Use With Your Phone

Top 10 Best Sex Toy You Can Use With Your Phone

(This post was last updated on February 2, 2021 at 9:54 a.m.)

Technology has improved every aspect of our lives from shopping, watching shows on demand to even sex. Sex toy technology has progressed from non-powered toys to electric power to rechargeable batteries. Now it's more common to find high-quality luxury sex toys controlled with your phone.

Not only are luxury sex toys controlled by your phone convenient as a remote control (that you will rarely misplace!), they are also very helpful if your partner is in another room or if you are a long-distance relationship with your partner. Allowing your partner to control your sex toy, creates additional intimacy and trust for your relationship. Plus, it's fun to experiment and add variety to your sexual play!

Here's our list of the top best X toys t use with your phone, whether you are alone or sharing this experience with your partner.


What Is A Luxury Sex Toy?

Luxury sex toys are higher quality products.

Would you rather drive a Maserati or a Ford? If price were no object, the answer is simple: you would want to drive a Maserati. Why? It’s faster, made with better materials, more exclusive, etc.

The same is true with high-quality luxury sex toys. They are:

  • made of body-safe materials (rather than toxic chemicals that are harmful to your body)
  • quieter
  • more powerful
  • innovative
  • rechargeable
  • waterproof
  • built to last a long time (or will be replaced if they don’t!)

Luxury sex toy manufacturers maintain rigorous standards for their products, spend a lot of time and money on research and development, and stand by their products with at least one-year warranties.

High-quality premium sex toys do NOT have:

  • rough seams
  • a rubbery chemical smell like that of a new shower curtain
  • “jelly” materials/latex, which contains rubber

Luxury, quality, and safety come at a price! Remember: you get what you pay for when it comes to adult products.

High-end sex toys and vibrators are made with body-safe materials. The best materials are non-porous and non-toxic. Medical-grade silicone is often used, which is excellent at transferring vibrations and comes in many different textures and finishes. Other premium materials include stainless steel, borosilicate glass, Elastomed, and ABS plastic.

Don't Forget Lube!!!

Lubrication during sexual play is important. That is because lube makes sex BETTER and makes sex more comfortable. The act of sexual intercourse often creates friction. If there is not enough lubrication, small tears could occur in the vagina, which could increase the risk of urinary tract infections, STIs, and other types of infections.

Just as important, lube makes sex much more pleasurable. Every sensation is enhanced which will allow you to feel every movement at a heightened level.

For anal play, lubrication is a must. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce natural lubrication. Therefore, lube is necessary. Plus, lube makes anal play more comfortable. Anal lubricant, which is thicker than regular lubricant, stays on the skin longer and provides a more comfortable feeling by reducing friction and sensation.

If you are using sex toys, it’s always smart to use personal lubricant. Toys tend to dry up as they are exposed to air, making for uncomfortable re-entry.

Most of the time, our bodies produce enough natural lubricant to be comfortable everyday. However, if you are having sex or using toys, you may need more than what nature provides, especially if you are experiencing hormonal changes, on medications or experiencing stress.

Using personal lubricant is not a sign of a broken body or a failed libido. Instead it’s the most normal thing in the world.

We recommend water-based lubricant when using sex toys and silicone-based lube when using non-silicone sex toys or during sex or during sexual play in the shower/bath tub.

Water-Based Lube

Silicone-Based Lube

Clean Your Sex Toy!

It's very important to clean your luxury sex toys before and after each use. Regular soap and water can leave a residue and potentially change your pH making you even dryer. Luxury sex toys should be washed with sex toy cleaner.

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Whether you are pregnant, just gave birth, or want more and better orgasms, enjoy the benefits of a toned pelvic floor with Elvie, the award-winning Kegel exercise trainer.

Featuring breakthrough technology, Elvie is a small, ergonomic, discreet, and portable Kegel exerciser that tracks your pelvic floor and Kegel workouts with personalized workouts developed by physiotherapists and other experts. It uses force and motion sensors to measure pelvic floor movement, assisted by the free app to help you visualize the exercises in real-time. The app also lets you know whether you are doing the exercises correctly.

As your pelvic muscles contract, the on screen gem lifts, allowing you to see your pelvic floor exercises in real time. The six unique games were designed with the help of physiotherapists and experts from Imperial College and University of Oxford. From Speed, which challenges fast-twitch muscles, to Hold which builds endurance, the exercises give the pelvic floor a full workout.

BEST G-SPOT VIBE: MysteryVibe Crescendo



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The MysteryVibe Crescendo is a bendable vibrator that allows you to use it in many different ways for a customized experience.

You can flex Crescendo into any shape that works for you or your partner. That could be a curved shape to stimulate the G-spot, an S-shape to stimulate both the clitoris and G-spot at the same or a J shape to curve around the head of the penis. Crescendo is a versatile luxury sex toy that is designed to be unisex and gender-neutral.


Crescendo has 6 powerful motors along the length of its shaft and has 6 different places where it bends. All of these motors give you 12 vibration modes and 16 pre-set speeds. With powerful motors and flexible design, it's the perfect companion for foreplay and sex!

Use your smartphone to control your Crescendo through the MysteryVibe App. Or let your partner take control of your pleasure. Explore the app’s pre set vibration patterns or create your own. The free App allows you to create your own vibrations and it can be used as a remote control with a 100 feet/30 meters Bluetooth range. All the motors can be programmed individually and controlled using the App so you can create a vibe that is completely tailored to you. Finally, you can also share your vibes with your partner, friends, or anyone else no matter where in the world you are located.

BEST BULLET VIBE: MysteryVibe Poco



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Poco is a luxury bullet vibrator that can be bent into different shapes for solo & partner play. Simply bend Poco with your hand into any shape for a customized experience.

Designed to be similar to your fingers - your first 'sex toy' - Poco can be bent to reach, discover, and pleasure your body making it the perfect beginner vibrator.

You can flex Poco into a curved shape to stimulate your clitoris and vulva during solo play or penetration. You can also bend Poco into a curved shape to stimulate the G-spot or a C-shape to stimulate both the clitoris and G-spot at the same.


Perfect for foreplay or sex, Poco has two powerful motors along the length of its shaft with 16 intensity levels and comes pre-set with 8 vibration patterns. Both the motors can be programmed individually and controlled using the app for an even more customized experience.




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Tenuto is a luxury vibrating cock ring that stretches and adapts around your penis & perineum for increased blood flow, an extended erection, and prolonged pleasure.

Soft, stretchy, and comfortable, Tenuto is designed to be worn comfortably during sex. Tenuto's front three motors are not only designed to stimulate the penis but also deliver powerful vibrations to your partner's labia and clitoris.

Take charge of Tenuto or let your partner control your pleasure through the MysteryVibe App. Explore preset vibrations or create your own with just a few taps!




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Esca 2 is a hands-free remote controlled luxury G-spot vibrator. Ergonomically designed to rest against your G-spot, Esca 2 is a hands-free sex toy.

This remote controlled vibrator is Bluetooth®-enabled for app-controlled play, allowing you to play with your partner from across the room or across the world!

Popular with webcam models, the tail of Esca 2 lights up so that your partner can visually experience the vibration that you are getting from the toy.

Not only is Esca 2 excellent for interactive couples play, it can also be used for solo play thanks to the OhMiBod Remote App. You can enjoy customized and pre-set vibration patterns, music driven vibration, along with in-app chat and photo sharing on both Android and iOS devices.




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We-Vibe Chorus an adjustable couples vibrator and long-distance sex toy designed to be enjoyed with a partner during sex. Chorus is worn by her during sex for extra stimulation to the clitoris and/or the G-spot. The penis also feels the vibration of the toy and presses the toy again the G-spot for extra pleasure.

The tighter you squeeze the remote, the stronger the vibration. Releasing the grip reduces the vibration. The Squeeze Remote also features standard buttons to change modes or adjust the intensity.

Chorus also features unique touch-sensitive receptors that allow body movements to control the vibrations. When paired to the We-Connect™ app, Touch-sense offers three different modes for the best pleasure experience. When a couple touches or moves against the sensor, the vibration changes, creating a natural rise and fall that leads to epic experiences together.

AnkorLink creates the most stable connection between Chorus and the We-Connect app and makes sure the signal never drops off in the heat of the moment. AnkorLink enhances the traditional Bluetooth connection by bypassing current Bluetooth® connectivity challenges created by the water content of the human body. The Squeeze Remote is the anchor between Chorus and We-Connect and should be kept close by for the best connection.




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Nova 2 is an ergonomic luxury dual stimulation rabbit vibrator that that flexes with your movements and adjusts to your body while simultaneously stimulating the G-spot and clitoris for a blended orgasm.

The ergonomic design includes an adjustable internal G-spot stimulator to fit your body. The adjustable shaft provides added stability, is easy to adjust, and then stays in place once you’ve found the perfect fit.

Unlike other rabbit vibrators, Nova 2's super soft external arm flexes when you thrust the toy inside of you. The benefit of this unique design allows this luxury sex toy to never lose contact with the clitoris -- so that you always stimulate the clitoris.

Nova's ergonomic handle makes this luxury sex toy easy to use thanks to a comfortable grip. The shape is easy to adjust and stays in place once the perfect fit is found, ensuring non-stop, comfortable one-handed pleasure inside and out.

With the free We-Connect app, you can play and share control of Nova 2 from anywhere, create custom vibes, and play together with other We-Vibe products.




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Designed in collaboration with leading prostate experts for comfort, safety, and pleasure, Vector by We-Vibe is a custom-fit vibrating prostate massager and male sex toy that stimulates both the prostate and the perineum.

Vector's adjustable head applies firm yet gentle pressure on the prostate, and Vector's base is flexible yet stable while stimulating the perineum. This luxury sex toy has two motors that work together to stimulate both the prostate and the perineum with rumbling vibrations and gentle pressure.

You can control both motors independently and change the speed and vibration modes with the easy-to-use wireless remote control or the free We-Connect app. Use We-Connect to control Vector's two motors independently, play and share control of Vector from anywhere, create custom vibes and play together with other We-Vibe products. Vector's enhanced security feature pairs and trusts only two controllers (phones and/or remotes) at one time. You can also control the Vector by simply using the on/off button.




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Wand by We-Vibe is an ultra-powerful and flexible cordless body massager and luxury vibrator that includes two attachments: one for her and one for him.

Its one-touch touchscreen control acts like a dimmer switch, allowing seamless control of intensity so that you can find the exact sensation that feels good to you with 10+ vibration patterns.

Smart Silence senses when Wand head is close to you and your skin, turning the vibrations on when desired, and off when taken away. Wand turns on once the head is .08" or less away from contact with skin or when wearing clothes not thicker than .04".

Wand is easy and comfortable to hold, lightweight, and ergonomic. Its flexible head hits all the right spots.

Wand comes with two attachments for alternate sensations. One is fluttery and focused and can provide intense stimulation to just the right spot. The other is great for stroking and can be used on different shapes and sizes because of its flexibility. Wand's universal head can be used with all standard wand attachments.

The We-Connect app acts as the remote control and also enables long-distance connectivity, so you can play together, even when you are apart.

BEST CHASTITY BELT: Cellmate Cock Cage



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Cellmate is an app controlled chastity device and cock cage, where the key master has the power to decide if your submissive (or multiple subs) is allowed to be unlocked and released from his chastity, whether they are in the same room or miles away!


Cellmate's keyless locking system can be controlled worldwide using the free app for Android and iOS, and it gives a real time geo location and status. The sub cannot cheat or escape, though its account setting can be changed from wearer to key master at any time, if the key master approves.

Cellmate is waterproof with an IPX7 rating and designed for prolonged wear. It is available in two sizes and two rings sizes are included.

Battery life in normal use will be between eight and 12 months and is replaceable. The battery is has an auto lock when it reaches a 15% battery life.

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