Anal play is a great way to change things up in the bedroom. This area of the body is full of nerve endings and when stimulated, can lead to amazing orgasms.
Anal sexual play is more than just penetration. It includes everything you do with the butt cheeks, perineum or t’aint, anal opening, prostate, and inside the anus. This might include tickling, stroking, massaging, spanking, flogging, using a vibrator, fingering, licking, or penetrating.
Anal play feels goods because the same nerve that goes to the penis or clitoris also runs through the anus. Plus, the clitoral legs and prostate are stimulated through anal play. Some people say prostate orgasms are more pleasurable!
If you’re first starting out with anal play, especially penetration, the number one rule is: to go SLOWLY. For penetration, start small with fingers, a butt plug, or a small dildo and work your way up with regards to both length and girth.
No matter whether you are a beginner to anal play or are experienced, you can easily find the right sex toy just for you.
If you are a beginner and have never used an anal toy or have only used small anal toy or a finger for anal penetration, stick with something simple and lightweight that is either silicone or hard plastic. Try a toy that has a diameter of approximately 0-1". You could also try anal beads since the beads graduate in size and you can use as much of the toy as you feel comfortable.
If you are an intermediate and have had previous experience with smaller anal toys, you can graduate to something bigger. It's recommended that you choose a toy that is approximately 1-1.5" in diameter.If you haven't already done so, now might be the time to introduce heavier materials like glass, stainless steel or wood. You could also introduce some texture or vibration.
More advanced anal users want something large with a diameter at least 1.5" or more. You could also try anal beads or something very different with 3 different points of vibration or with 2 rotating beads inside the toy.