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Who Are We?


Just like you....

I started My Secret Luxury as a place that I and other sex positive people could learn about sex toys and pleasure.

At My Secret Luxury, you can shop without embarrassment, intimidation and thousands of products.

Just like you, I want to learn and appreciate well-made products that value design, innovation and use body-safe materials for healthy and fun pleasure.

I want to help you understand that quality products provide an infinite amount of pleasure and can help improve your sex life.

Here's My Story . . .


One evening in the summer of 2011, my partner and I were in New York City on a date night. After dinner, while strolling around Greenwich Village, we found ourselves in front of a sex toy shop.

My partner and I are not terribly adventurous or particularly kinky. However, we are very much in love and make an effort to keep our marriage fun and exciting. Our goal when we walked into that store was mostly curiosity.

Rather than learning about some fun toys, or picking out a great massage oil, or buying some romantic scented candles, we walked out... empty handed. What should have been a fun and enticing experience left us feeling embarrassed and dirty - and not in a good way.

I realized there had to be a better way to learn about adult products and inspire romance.

When I got home, I went online and struggled to find an online store that could offer the kind of products, education and experience that people like us would like.

So, one year later, My Secret Luxury was born. I started the business to deliver a luxurious, sophisticated, and discreet experience. I want everyone to learn about pleasure, discover innovative products, and shop in a secure environment where they can feel comfortable.

In the spring of 2013, I launched My Secret Soiree, a different kind of adult sex toy party -- one where you can learn and shop in a non-pressured way -- in the NY Metropolitan Area. We are an education company that teaches sex education and features high quality body-safe sex toys and sex accessories. In 2015, My Secret Soiree launched our sex toy online shopping parties nationwide as a co-op of sex educators. In 2016, we furthered our commitment to sex education by offering sex toy party workshops and sex education classes.


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Your Passion Is Your Business

Quality & Service Is Sexy

What happens in the bedroom (hotel room, car, kitchen table, airplane bathroom etc.) stays in the bedroom (hotel room, car, kitchen table, airplane bathroom, etc.). We don't pass judgment. We celebrate all genders and believe that romance can be expressed between any consenting adults.

Our product selection embodies superior design and materials direct from the manufacturers. Our support of every product is demonstrated by a belief in superior personal service. Variety is the spice of life, so we continually seek out the newest, most exciting, and highest quality products available


A More Loving World Is a Better World

Your Complete Pleasure Is Our Priority


We will inspire love, romance, and intimate moments one person at a time. Our sex education and our products will enable you to give and get pleasure, grow love, celebrate intimacy, and introduce fun. We will enable you to experience an erotic renaissance through education and exploration.


We understand that customer satisfaction is the lifeblood of our business. Customer inquiries will be treated efficiently, knowledgeably, and with integrity. All interactions will be prompt, accurate, and regarded with the highest level of respect and courtesy.


Our Business Is a Relationship… Not a One-Night Stand


We are in it for the long haul,and we will grow lasting and dynamic relationships with our customers. We will always strive to be transparent, trustworthy, and open minded. Each moment spent with us will be worthwhile and demonstrate our attention to your every desire.


"I have never realized how a high quality toy or high quality sex accessory could deliver a more enjoyable experience."



"Loving the curated approach and sophisticated feel of My Secret Luxury."




"I have to say that I am extremely impressed with your store. The brands and variety are quite amazing."



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