BDSM Gear & Hardcore Sex Toys

No products were found matching your selection.

FAQs

What is bondage gear?

+

Bondage or BDSM gear are the collective terms for a medley of tools, sex toys and accessories designed to add a layer of excitement and control to BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism, and Masochism) play. BDSM is all about enhancing the dynamic between partners through restraint, sensory play, and a touch of power exchange. With these toys,  consenting partners can experience a range of experiences, from light bondage to intense discipline. BDSM gear includes:

  • Handcuffs and ropes 
  • Impact toys, such as whips and paddles. 
  • Sensory deprivation tools like blindfolds. 
  • Nipple clamps, cock rings, and electro-stimulation devices. 

BDSM toys are most fulfilling sexually when combined with communication, consent, and boundaries, which enhances the relationship between partners.

What is a bondage kit?

+

A bondage kit is a bundled collection of BDSM essentials thoughtfully compiled to offer everything you might need to embark on or deepen your bondage explorations. Picture it as a starter pack or an all-in-one treasure chest designed to cater to a variety of preferences and levels of experience. Whether you’re looking to spice up your relationship or explore new realms of pleasure, a bondage kit can open the door for an exciting new experience.

How to use a bondage kit?

+

Using a bondage kit can add excitement to intimacy through BDSM exploration. Here are a few simple steps to get started with a bondage kit: 

  • Beforehand, discuss boundaries and establish a safe word. 
  • Unpack the kit together, starting with less intimidating items like blindfolds. 
  • Communicate continuously and always establish consent before trying new things. 
  • Explore sensations and dynamics at your own pace, focusing on pleasure and curiosity.
  • After play, engage in essential aftercare. 
  • Reflect on what you enjoyed and plan out what you might do differently. 

How to use bondage toys?

+

You can improve intimacy by experiencing new sensations through bondage toys. Here are some guidelines for using bondage toys with a partner. 

  • Start with open communication in order to set boundaries and agree on a safe word.
  • Familiarize yourselves with each toy and start with simple options before progressing.
  • Always use toys safely and never leave bound partners alone. 
  • Experiment with different combinations of toys and roles.
  • Prioritize aftercare to reconnect after play. 

Ultimately, using bondage toys is about mutual exploration, trust, and pleasure, so keep communication open and enjoy discovering new versions of intimacy together.

Where to buy BDSM gear?

+

My Secret Luxury offers high-quality BDSM gear and a seamless buying experience. Offering top-quality products, discreet packaging, and expert guides, My Secret Luxury is a trusted source for safe and pleasurable exploration for both beginners and experienced practitioners. To start your BDSM journey, choose My Secret Luxury.