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Lovense Lapis is a premium strapless strap-on built for shared pleasure—with three motors you can control separately, plus app-powered teasing you can hand off from across the room (or across the country). Wear it, ride it, harness it, and let the vibrations do the flirting.
Highlights:
3 motors, independently controlled (wearer + receiver + “extra” intensity)
App control for patterns, long-distance play, and hands-free teasing
Strapless design with a flexible neck for better angles
Body-safe silicone + waterproof for easy cleanup
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Some toys are “for you.” Some are “for them.”
Lapis is for both of you—at the same time. It’s designed so the wearer gets real stimulation (not just the job) while the receiving partner gets a satisfying, steady ride—then you layer in three motors and app control to turn foreplay into a full-on power move.
If you like your pleasure shared, cheeky, and a little competitive, you’re in the right place.


No matter if you’re lesbian, bisexual, or questioning, enjoy penetration with shared vibrations that can be adjusted to however you and your partner like.

Try something new, flip the gender roles so the receiver is now the giver for an exciting new experience for you and your lover.

Let sound, music, or someone else, control the intensity and duration of the vibrations with Lovense Remote.

Whether you’re a transgender man or curious about being the opposite sex, try using Lapis to experience the feeling of having a penis and explore your gender identity.
For the wearer:
That bulb end isn’t just there to keep it in place—it’s there to keep you involved. Add vibration and suddenly you’re not “wearing a strap-on”… you’re getting yours, too.
For the receiver:
You get a shaped shaft with deep vibrations you can fine-tune—whether you want gentle, steady hum or “don’t-stop-don’t-stop” intensity.
Insertable bulb rests comfortably against the G-spot allowing you to feel pressure and vibrations as you thrust.
Strapless strap-ons are a vibe — and they can take a little technique.
Here’s the real talk: if you want maximum stability for thrusting, use Lapis with a harness. You’ll get that locked-in feeling while keeping the strapless pleasure where it belongs (on both of you).
If you’re the wearer, and find your vaginal muscles aren’t at the moment strong enough to hold the Lapis inside, we recommend using with a harness like the SpareParts Adjustable Strap Harness for effortless, uninterrupted strap-on sex. You can also strengthen your pelvic floor with Kegel exercise.
Best of both worlds: strapless sensation + harness confidence.
Sleek tip inserts smoothly and provides strong vibrations directly for heightened pleasure.

The magic is how customizable it is:
Dial up vibration for the wearer
Turn up the receiver side
Or mix-and-match patterns so you’re both chasing different kinds of “yes.”
Sexy-playful tip: Give your partner control in the app and don’t tell them what you’re feeling. Let them guess. Let them learn.
– Flexible neck adjusts to fit and change angles to be comfortable for both the wearer and receiver.
– At only 11oz you won’t get tired from wearing compared to other strapless strap-ons.

– Body safe material is firm but soft for a realistic skin-like feeling.

– Allows for play in the pool or shower and makes it easy to clean.

App toys aren’t just “a feature” here — it’s the whole point. With the Lovense app you can:
Explore patterns without stopping to push buttons
Hand control to your partner for teasing
Play long-distance when you’re not in the same room
Basically: foreplay stays foreplay, not “hang on, I’m trying to find the button.”

Remotely control Lapis on Lovense remote app, or give control to your partner whatever the distance.


Rinse warm, wash with mild soap or toy cleaner, and let dry completely before storing. (Bonus points for giving it a little towel spa day.)
Is Lapis good for beginners?
Yes—if you’re open to a learning curve. Strapless toys can take a session or two to master. Start slow, use lube, and consider a harness for extra stability.
Do we need a harness?
Not required, but highly recommended if you want consistent, confident thrusting—especially for longer sessions.
Can it be controlled hands-free?
Yes. Once connected, the app handles modes and intensity so you can stay in the moment.
Is it waterproof?
Yes—safe for easy rinsing and shower-friendly play.
What kind of lube should we use?
Water-based lube is the safest choice for silicone toys and keeps everything comfortable.
| Weight | 27.776 oz |
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| Dimensions | 5 × 2.125 × 10.125 in |
| UPC | 6972677430227 |





Riley (verified owner) –
Finally, a strapless strap-on that doesn’t leave the wearer doing unpaid labor. The vibrations are legit, and the app control makes it way more fun than fiddling with buttons mid-session.
Jordan (verified owner) –
We tried it strapless first and then added a harness. Strapless was hot, harness was unstoppable. Either way, this thing is a ‘stay up late’ decision.
Samantha (verified owner) –
The bulb end is chef’s kiss. I actually felt involved instead of just focused on my partner. We took turns controlling the app and it turned into a teasing game.
Alex (verified owner) –
Powerful and surprisingly comfortable. Took a little practice to find the best angle, but once we did… wow. Worth it.
Kayla (verified owner) –
I love that we can make it ‘equal opportunity’—I can turn mine up without blasting my partner’s side, or the other way around. That alone is a win.
Morgan (verified owner) –
Long-distance control is dangerous in the best way. My partner wanted to play before my online meeting and I almost didn’t make it on time. It felt so good and it was so much fun.
Casey (verified owner) –
Strong vibrations, easy to clean, and the silicone feels great. A harness made a big difference in its stability during use, but by itself for grinding we found it to be perfect.