5 Top Best Long Distance Sex Toys 2021

5 Top Best Long Distance Sex Toys 2021

Posted by Sexual Health Educator on 9th Nov 2021

See our picks for the top 5 best long distance sex toys to make your relationship more intimate while apart.

Top 5 Best Long Distance Sex Toys

This post was last updated on November 9, 2021 at 5:17 p.m.

Being in a long distance relationship is tough...but doable and is more commonplace. According to The Center for the Study of Long Distance Relationships, the number of people in long distance relationships increased due to factors like meeting partners online, traveling more for work, etc. Surprisingly, there isn’t a big difference between the rates of breakups between local relationships and long distance relationships.


While a long-distance relationship can be complicated and harder to manage, this type of relationship also offers opportunities to connect with a partner in creative ways! Thankfully, with apps like Snapchat, Facetime, Skype, and/or the traditional phone, many people are putting in the effort to have engaged sexual relationships and intimacy across geographical barriers.

These are the long distance sex toys that you can control from using apps or the internet. Many might think long distance sex toys in the teledildonic category are only designed for people with vulvas. However, there is an emerging market specifically focused on how to include stimulation for people with penises in these long-distance play sessions!

Long distance sex toys are a great way to feel intimate with your partner without being in the same room or location. Sex toys for long distance relationships help the relationship maintain passion and help keep it fun and interesting when you are not together. Long distance sex toys add nuance, intrigue, and fun into how people connect from afar. There are sexual wellness products that expand how you can participate in your partner’s pleasure using technology. These long distance sex toys are called teledildonics.

Teledildonics allows couples to connect in a more intimate way there ever before. They can be controlled through a smartphone app from miles away. You and your partner might be physically apart, but long distance sex toys bring you closer together.

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We-Vibe has also been committed to making the majority of their sex toys app compatible with shareable controls. The We-Vibe line and app are expanding the ways people share an intimate connection over a distance! By including toys for butts, people with penises, as well as internal and external vibrator designs, We-Vibe has a diverse and broad range of toys to explore. The new app is compatible with most smartphones and allows you to share control of the intensity and vibration pattern with a partner located anywhere the world. It also includes chat and live video functions to stimulate the most important sexual organ, the brain.

We-Vibe Chorus Couples Vibrator, the updated version of the best selling We-Vibe couples vibrator and long distance sex toy, is an adjustable couples vibrator designed to be enjoyed with a partner during sex. However, it can also be used during solo play as a dual-stimulation vibrator (stimulating the clitoris and G-spot). So, when you are not with your partner, they can control your Chorus from anywhere in the world!

When worn during sex, Chorus is worn by her during sex for extra stimulation to the clitoris and/or the G-spot. The penis also feels the vibration of the toy and presses the toy again the G-spot for extra pleasure. It is adjustable for a custom and comfortable fit.

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Chorus’ new Squeeze Remote translates a simple, natural gesture – a squeeze – into more pleasure. The remote control can be operated by you or your partner it while you are in the same room.

The new Touch-sense feature uses advanced sensors to respond to body movements in the moment. And, our the AnkorLink technology ensures couples never lose connection.




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Lovense Lush 3 is a powerful hands-free, wearable, and insertable luxury egg vibrator that is controlled remotely with Bluetooth connectivity that can be used in you bedroom, discreet public play, or as a long distance sex toy. Four times more powerful than most hands-free vibrators, its large motor does not reduce battery life.

The third version of the Lush hands-free sex toy Lush hands-free sex toy has new improvements. The antenna has been redesigned to improve the connectivity with your smartphone. The power button is at the end of the antenna, so you can turn it on and off while still being able to wear it. The fixed tail ensures Lush 3 “hugs” your body and stays in place putting more pressure on your G-Spot, which results in even more intense, deeper, and rumbly vibrations!




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OhMiBod Fuse Bluetooth Enabled Vibrator is the first interactive dual stimulation vibe and long distance sex toy that takes the excitement of control to a new level. The Fuse luxury vibrator is Bluetooth- enabled with two-way communication. You and your partner can now share your pleasure from any distance. The built-in sensor technology allows for bi-directional control of connected devices. Either of you will be able to drive the action. The LED light illuminates to provide you with visual feedback.

The Fuse connects to all Kiiroo powered adult sex toys. The built-in touch sensitive technology in the tickler allows you to control your partner's device at the touch or tap of your finger.

If dual stimulation (stimulating both the clitoris and the G-spot is not for you, then the OhMiBod Esca 2 might be a better option.

With a larger battery capacity to support longer playtime, OhMiBod Esca 2 takes advantage of the OhMiBod and Kiiroo award-winning technologies to deliver a fun, interactive experience. Connect your Esca 2 to another Kiiroo product and give your partner interactive pleasure. The illuminated LED lights synchronize with the vibrations and give visual feedback to your partner. This luxury vibrator and sex toy gives you many different ways to enjoy intimate moments with your partner. 

Not only is Esca 2 excellent for interactive couples play, it can also be used for solo play thanks to the OhMiBod Remote App. You can enjoy customized and pre-set vibration patterns, music driven vibration, along with in-app chat and photo sharing on both Android and iOS devices.  



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Lovense Max 2 Masturbator is a multiple-sensation masturbation sleeve and sex toy for men with suction and 360 degree contractions that sends vibrations throughout the toy.


The air pumps mimic contractions, and the adjustable air vent allows you to control the suction. Use the buttons on the Max 2 sex toy for me or the app to change the air pump settings and adjust the tightness.

Max 2 accommodates most sizes and the inner nubs stimulate your penis while you stroke for a unique sensation.


Compatible with the Lovense App, use your smartphone as a remote control. Enjoy close-range control, long-distance control, unlimited vibration patterns, sync to music, sound-activated vibrations, and set vibration levels. An excellent long distance sex toy, either have someone else control your toy from miles away or sync with another Lovense toy and the toys will react to each other's movements.




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The Pivot is a luxury sex toy for men and vibrating ring that enhances pleasure for both partners with stronger and longer lasting erections and more powerful orgasms for both partners. (It can also be used on a dildo as well as worn on your finger as a finger vibrator.)

When worn during sex, this high-quality and comfortable vibrating ring provides clitoral stimulation and enhances pleasure for both partners during sex.

Soft, stretchy and comfortable, Pivot is made with silky smooth silicone that is soft and gentle on your body. The Pivot stays put and can be used during many sexual positions. Due to Pivot's design, it fits penises of different sizes while providing stability and support.

Like other We-Vibe sex toys, connect your Pivot vibrating ring to your smartphone with the free We-Connect app and use your smartphone as a remote control. You can also connect with your partner regardless of distance and control each others We-Vibe in real-time.