Top Best Masturbators for Men 2020

See our picks for the top best masturbators for men.

Best Masturbators for Men 2020

This post was last updated on September 21, 2020 at 7:46 pm.

Sex toys for men are becoming more and more popular and mainstream. (Women can't have all the fun, right?) The hottest male sex toys are masturbators, which are different and some believe much better than their own hand. They are a great addition to anyone's toy box.


What are Masturbators for Men?

The best masturbation toys for men or masturbation sleeves include adult sex toys with a hole and a carved out tunnel for you to insert your penis. Designed in a variety of shapes and styles, some are realistic-looking, while others are more discreet. No matter what they look like, all masturbation sleeves are designed to feel similar to vaginal, anal, or oral sex. Used with lots of personal lubricant, they create different sensations for your penis.

Why Would You Want A Masturbator?

Sometimes, men want something different from their hand. A male masturbator offers different sensations, whether it is different textures, suction or vibration. Many men use these toys whether they are single or in a relationship.

Why Do You Us A Masturbator?

Masturbation sleeves are fun for solo or partner play. Some open-ended ones can enhance oral sex where your partner can use it to stroke your shaft while they focus on the head of your penis.

Types of Masturbators

There are two types of masturbators and masturbation sex toys for men:

  • Non-Vibrating
  • Vibrating


Non-vibrating masturbators are also called strokers or masturbation sleeves. These types of sex toys for men require you to move the toy up, down, and around your penis.


Vibrating masturbators are also called male vibrators. Some vibrators are hands-free leaving so that you can concentrate on other things.

How Do You Use A Masturbator?

Personal lubricant is definitely needed with masturbation sleeves. In fact, thinner lubes are easiest to use with masturbation sleeves, as they can penetrate all the nooks & crannies! We recommend male lubricant that is designed specifically for men. Depending on the material, the best male masturbation toys work best with water-based lubricant. Our favorite is Sliquid Ride Bodyworx.

Don't forget the lube!

Once you have lubed up, all you have to do is stick your penis in and start moving the masturbator up, down and around.

Or, if it's a hands-free sex toy, let the toy do all the work.

How Do You Clean A Masturbator?

Masturbators can be washed with soap and warm water or sex toy cleaner and need to be dried completely. (Except Fleshlights - DO NOT use soap - warm water only!!) Powdering some masturbators with toy power, such as Think Clean Thoughts Antibacterial Toy Powder, can help maintain the silky, skin-like feel.

The top . . .


Fleshlight Pink Lady Stroker



(Discreet shipping)

Fleshlight is synonymous with male strokers and sleeves. The original discreet masturbator contained in a flashlight container, the Fleshlight is a best seller for many reasons.

  • Easy to Use  - Just lube the Fleshlight and your penis, insert your penis into the Fleshlight and stroke!
  • Feels like the Real Thing - Between the texture and warmth, to many people it feels like a vagina.
  • Easy to Clean - Remove the sleeve, rinse with warm water, and dry.

The Fleshlight Pink Lady is a classic masturbator and an excellent Fleshlight to start with if you have never tried a Fleshlight before.

Fleshlight Turbo Thrust Blue Ice Stroker



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The Fleshlight Turbo Ignition Blue Ice is a masturbation sleeve that gives you the most realistic and satisfying alternative to oral sex!

Offering you the most realistic texture and satisfying alternative to oral sex, Fleshlight Turbo is tight and ribbed in all the right places. Uniquely designed with three points of initial insertion, the Turbo provides the mind-blowing sensations synonymous with getting an amazing blowjob every time you use it. Whether you like to stimulate just the tip of your penis or you prefer the tight sensation of deep throating, the Turbo provides you the tease and the thrill of an amazing orgasm!

Fleshlight Ice Crystal Stroker



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Similar in size to the original Fleshlight sex toy for men, the Fleshlight Ice has a clear sleeve color and case for added visual stimulation. The transparent sleeve lets you (or your partner) watch while your penis is stimulated for added stimulation. Fleshlight Ice is available with the exclusive Crystal inner texture, which has been designed to stimulate your penis with distinctive sensations all throughout.

Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU) Stroker



(Discreet shipping)

Improve your performance and last longer with the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit masturbation sleeve. The Stamina Training Unit has a tighter feel and replicates sex, which can help you increase your sexual stamina, improve your performance and techniques, and heighten and intensify orgasms.

This masturbation sleeve is perfect if you have already experienced a Fleshlight, and you are interested in trying something new or want to try a tighter stroker. The Stamina Training Unit can help you improve your sexual performance because of the heavily textured and stimulating sleeve. If you can last 10 minutes in the Stamina Training Unit sleeve, you can last 20 minutes in real sex!

Fleshlight GO Surge Stroker



(Discreet shipping)

The Fleshlight GO Surge is shorter, lighter and more discreet than the original Fleshlight. It is easier to grip and stroke with a single hand. It's smaller size also makes it easier for travel.

Despite its size, this Fleshlight masturbation sleeve and stroker is everything you love about the original top-selling Fleshlight, condensed into a more compact design.

Fleshlight Quickshot



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Fleshlight's smallest masturbation sleeve, the Quickshot, is open on both ends. This discreet luxury sex toy is great for masturbation or added extra sensation during couples' oral play or foreplay.

The Quickshot features a dual-orifice with Fleshlight’s patented SuperSkin texture. It features sleeves caps on both ends for convenient storage. It is both discreet and portable.

Tenga 3D Masturbation Sleeve



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Tenga is a luxury sex toy brand known for quality, innovation, and discretion.

The Tenga 3D is a simple masturbation sleeve and stroker with internal details for added stimulation. The 3D's sleeve is a stretchy masturbation sleeve that is snug and fits all sizes. Available in several different designs, this sex toy for men uses its internal details as its external design. You can even add suction by holding the end of sleeve.

To clean the Tenga 3D, simply turn it inside out and wash thoroughly.

Tenga Flip Orb Masturbation Sleeve



(Free discreet shipping)

The Flip Orb masturbation sleeve and sex toy for men contains firm, flexible orbs or balls encased in soft elastomer for a different kind of sensation!

Meant to be used with only one hand, the Flip Orb has an elastomer sleeve with firm orbs surrounded in the soft sleeve material. The Orbs flex and move as you insert, creating layered stimulation for a completely new sensation!

The Flip Orb has a cap to hold it closed. The cap also keeps the insertion point clean. It is easy to hold, squeeze, and clean. Flip Orb allows you to control the intensity with its pressure pads.

Just flip it open to add water-based lube to both halves ensuring to cover every detail. Lubricating the insertion point before use will also allow for a smoother entry. To clean, flip it open again and dry on it's drying rack/case.

Tenga Flip Zero Masturbation Sleeve



(Free discreet shipping)

The Tenga Flip Zero is a modern and discreet masturbation sleeve that uses the finest premium materials and the most intricate internal texturing details with added suction for ultimate pleasure.

The opening for the penis provides the perfect seal, preventing lubricant from leaking and forming a strong vacuum seal made possible by the one-way valve.

The internal details are very complex and stimulating:

  1. The Ridge Wall's ridges hugs your penis from both sides
  2. The Ripple Dome grasps your shaft while rippling edges stimulate your shaft
  3. An outer layer covers the end orb which stimulates the tip of your penis from all angles

Easy to hold, the Flip Zero's pressure pads on the side of the toy are soft to the touch and allow for greater stimulation because of the suction it creates. The Flip Zero is also a great way to build stamina.

The Tenga Flip Zero has an integrated pivot and a flip-open hinge for seamless insertion, simple use and easier cleaning.

Fun Factory Manta



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The sleek, easy-to-hold Manta Vibrating Stroker and Masturbator is designed to be used during partner sex and solo play.

The unique shape of the manta ray shape allows for better coverage. Plus, the “wings” and the cleft in the center also enhance the power of the motor, adding movement to the vibration. If you add water-based lubricant to the ridges of this luxury male vibrator, it will make for a better stroking sensation. The design keeps your lube evenly distributed for just the right amount of slide. Also, its ergonomic shape lets you stroke comfortably. Finally, the wand-style design means that the vibration will be on your penis -- not your hand.

During couples play, slide Manta between your bodies and you will turn your penis into a vibrator! For oral sex, slide the Manta down your shaft for a blowjob accessory that feels like your partner is circling the back of the penis for a deep-throat feel.

Jett by Hot Octopuss



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Jett is a hands-free masturbator that is worn against the frenulum, just below the tip of the penis that delivers an intense orgasm. Jett’s flexible and stretchy sleeve expands, enabling you to easily go from flaccid to erect - completely hands-free.


Incredibly versatile, Jett is the first luxury masturbator that allows you infinite choice over the strength and frequency of vibration. Powered by two custom ‘bullet’ vibrators, each contains a different sized motor. These different motors deliver contrasting vibration frequencies. You can use each bullet separately or together to find the right strength and frequency of vibration and stimulation for an intense hands-free orgasm.

Jett's innovative, soft silicone sleeve fits your penis no matter your size. It expands as you do, taking you effortlessly from flaccid to erect and enabling you to reach orgasm hands-free.

LELO F1s Masturbator


Starts as $129

(Free discreet shipping)

LELO F1s is a luxury male vibrator and masturbator. A vibrating masturbation sleeve like no other that with two motors uses both vibration and sonic waves for the deepest orgasm you will ever have.

  • Dual internal motors to produce a series of intense sensations within the chamber with sonic waves, SenSonic technology
  • 10 highly sensitive performance sensors in which it automatically monitors, controls, and manages your rhythm
  • Curved grooves run along the inside of the body-safe silicone sleeve for more pleasure
  • Hands-free with Cruise Control
  • 3-button controls are easy to reach and manipulate
  • A clear window panel for your viewing pleasure
  • A free app is your remote control and allows you to access the LELO SDK (Software Developer Kit).
  • Rechargeable and waterproof

Nalone Oxxy Masturbator



(Free discreet shipping)

When you combine a vibrating masturbator with suction, you get the Nalone Oxxy! This powerful vibrating luxury male vibrator is combined with a specially-designed pump system that strongly grips your penis for a more intense orgasm. Vibration combined with the suction cup at the tip of the masturbator enhances sensation for an amazing orgasm.

Pulse Masturbator by Hot Octopuss


Starts as $119

(Free discreet shipping)

If you want a powerful male vibrator to either use alone or with a partner, you should try the Pulse 3. This luxury male masturbator and sex toy has powerful oscillation technology. This oscillator -- not a vibrator -- generates very deep vibrations on the most sensitive area of the penis: the frenulum.

The Pulse 3 hands-free male vibrator can be used with a flaccid (or erect penis), making it excellent for men suffering from erectile dysfunction. Pulse 3 SOLO is meant for solo masturbation, while Pulse 3 DUO is meant to be used with a partner because of the remote control and added vibration on the underside of the toy.

Tenga Flip Zero Vibration Masturbator



(Free discreet shipping)

The Tenga Flip Zero Vibration is a modern and discreet masturbation sleeve that uses the finest premium materials and the most intricate internal texturing details with added vibration and suction for ultimate pleasure.

This luxury male vibrator has two vibrating motors inside the elastomer sleeve, which provides rumbly sensations with each stroke throughout the entire masturbator. You can enjoy vibrations by pressing the button on the bottom of the sex toy and enjoy 5 different vibration patterns. The internal structure is designed specifically to complement and enhance the vibration sensations.

After inserting your penis, the pressure pads can be used to manually control the pressure. Or, you can squeeze out the internal air to create a strong vacuum suction. The repeating edges on the inside give a hugging sensation on both sides of the shaft.

The Flip Zero's pressure pads on the side of the toy are soft to the touch and allow for greater stimulation because of the suction it creates. The Flip Zero Electronic Vibration Masturbation Sleeve is also a great way to build stamina.