How to Choose & Use a Luxury Dildo : Top Picks For Luxury Dildos

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Top Picks For The Best Luxury Dildos

There’s so many dildos out there. How do you know which one is right for you? Dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and materials. No matter which one you choose, always pick the size and the design that works for you.

THE BASICS . . . .

What is a Luxury Dildo?

Luxury dildos are phallic shaped sex toys and penetrative objects that do not always vibrate. They come in a variety of shapes, sizes (from beginner-friendly to large), and materials. Dildos can be used alone or with a partner and can stimulate the G-spot or the prostate.

People use a dildo sex toy for G-spot or prostate stimulation, whether it’s during solo or couples play.

Will a Dildo Make You Orgasm?

It depends on what kind of stimulation you want.

Clitoral Stimulation

Luxury dildos may not help you with clitoral stimulation. Dildos are similar to a penis, which doesn’t usually provide clitoral stimulation. Of course, you can use your dildo while also stimulating your clitoris with a finger or vibrator, then it’s double the pleasure.

G-spot Stimulation

Most dildos are made to stimulate your G-spot. If you have a vibrating, thrusting, or rotating dildo, you might be able to grind on it at an angle where you stimulate your G-spot and your clitoris.

Anal Stimulation

You can also use a dildo for anal stimulation. If you have a vulva, anal dildos can help you achieve orgasm by indirectly stimulating the A-spot in the vagina. If you have a penis, you may can orgasm with prostate stimulation.

Just like other sex toys, you may need to experiment with a dildo to figure out what you and your body likes the most.


Dildos should always be used with personal lubricant. Even if there is enough natural lubrication, more is always better.

Types of Luxury Dildos

Just like other adult sex toys, there are many different types and sizes of luxury dildos. None are better or worse. It’s all about you and your personal preference.

High end dildos include:

  • Classic and lifelike (where the luxury dildo looks like a real penis)
  • Discreet and non-phallic
  • Hollow (excellent if you experience Erectile Dysfunction)
  • Flexible
  • Vibrating
  • Thrusting
  • Rotating
  • Remote Controlled
  • Strap On
  • Strapless Strap On (these types of strap on dildos do not require a dildo harness – one part is held in place by the vulva and the other part goes inside the receiver’s anus or vulva)

Additionally, high end dildos are made with premium materials including:

  • Silicone
  • Stainless Steel
  • Glass
  • Porcelain
  • Stone

High end dildos can have two usable sides or just one. Either end can be inserted when using a double dildos. Each end offers you a different type of stimulation, whether it is bigger for a fuller feeling or has ridges.

Meanwhile, strap on dildos are meant to be used with a strap on harness, but it can also be used without the harness. These dildos always have a flat base and/or suction cup base which makes it easier to use with a strap-on harness and can be suctioned to a flat surface.

Dildos that vibrate add extra sensation during insertion. Some vibrating dildos also rotate or thrust. Most vibrating dildos are also strap on dildos.

Why Do You Want a Luxury Dildo?

Luxury sex toys are higher quality products.

Would you rather drive a Maserati or a Ford? If price were no object, the answer is simple: you would want to drive a Maserati. Why? It’s faster, made with better materials, more exclusive, etc.

The same is true with high-quality luxury adult sex toys. They are:

  • made of body-safe materials (rather than toxic chemicals that are harmful to your body)
  • quieter
  • more powerful
  • innovative
  • rechargeable
  • waterproof
  • built to last a long time (or will be replaced if they don’t!)

Luxury sex toy manufacturers maintain rigorous standards for their products, spend a lot of time and money on research and development, and stand by their products with at least one-year warranties.

High-quality premium adults toys and high end dildos do NOT have:

  • rough seams
  • a rubbery chemical smell like that of a new shower curtain
  • “jelly” materials

Luxury, quality, and safety come at a price! Remember: you get what you pay for when it comes to adult products.

How to Clean Your Luxury Dildo

It’s very important to clean your high end dildo before and after each use. Regular soap and water can leave a residue and potentially change your pH making you even dryer. Luxury sex toys should be washed with sex toy cleaner.

YES! You Need to Use Lubricant!

Lubrication during sexual play is important. That is because lube makes sex BETTER and makes sex more comfortable. The act of sexual intercourse often creates friction. If there is not enough lubrication, small tears could occur in the vagina, which could increase the risk of urinary tract infections, STIs, and other types of infections.

Just as important, lube makes sex much more pleasurable. Every sensation is enhanced which will allow you to feel every movement at a heightened level.

For anal play, lubrication is a must. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce natural lubrication. Therefore, lube is necessary. Plus, lube makes anal play more comfortable. Anal lubricant, which is thicker than regular lubricant, stays on the skin longer and provides a more comfortable feeling by reducing friction and sensation.

When using sex toys, it’s always smart to use personal lubricant. Toys tend to dry up as they are exposed to air, making for uncomfortable re-entry.

Most of the time, our bodies produce enough natural lubricant to be comfortable everyday. However, if you are having sex or using toys, you may need more than what nature provides, especially if you are experiencing hormonal changes, on medications or experiencing stress.

Using personal lubricant is not a sign of a broken body or a failed libido. Instead it’s the most normal thing in the world!

We recommend water-based lubricant when using luxury dildos and silicone-based lube when using non-silicone luxury dildos.

Water-Based Lube



Njoy Pure Wand is a double ended luxury dildo that is excellent for G-spot stimulation.

At 1.5 lbs., this Njoy dildo works in a way that other G-Spot sex toys don’t. The exact weight and perfect curvature can help you reach your G-Spot and apply the exact right amount of pressure.

Nicknamed “the juicer,” Njoy Pure Wand is a great tool for if you want to experience female ejaculation.

This Njoy wand is a double-sided stainless steel dildo that has a 1″ bulb on one end and a 1.5″ bulb on the other. Start with the smaller end of the Njoy sex toy and work your way up to the larger end. Also, due to its unique half-moon shape, you can also it in a smooth rocking motion.

Cast in 316 medical-grade solid stainless steel and hand polished to a mirror shine, the Pure Wand high end dildo is completely non-porous and can be cleaned or sterilized by any means. The weight, curves, smoothness and retention of heat or cold make this G-spot dildo the utmost in simplicity and perfection.


Ella is a classic double sided luxury sex toy and high end dildo. LELO Ella is super soft and made with premium silicone.

Maximize your pleasure with both sides of LELO Ella. LELO’s luxury dildo has one end is flatter and designed to stimulate the G-Spot, while the other end has a straighter tip, which is better for thrusting. Beautifully smooth and seamless, Ellais a smaller (5-inches of insertable length) and discreet dildo with its two different giving you a varied experience.


The Dalia is a unique porcelain luxury dildo designed to stimulate your G-Spot. Every piece is handcrafted in Canada following the Limoges’ traditions ensuring the highest possible quality.


Porcelain benefits include:

  • Can be heated in boiling water or your hands or can been cooled in ice or the freezer
  • Is very easy to clean
  • Non-porous and hypoallergenic
  • Durable and hard to break
  • Hypoallergenic
  • Phthalates and plastic free
  • Made of natural materials
  • Compatible with all types of lubricants

Crafted using the best quality porcelain and a technique originating from Limoges in France, every Dalia is handmade and unique. About 20% to 25% of the Dalia is hollow. However, the walls have a considerable thickness, which makes Dalia extremely resistant.

Porcelain is extremely durable and is known for its great mechanical strength. Therefore, you can easily use it during sexual play. However, porcelain will break if you drop it on the floor or go from your freezer to boiling water.

Porcelain is usually at the room’s temperature. So it will be a little cooler than your body. Dalia can be easily warmed (in your hands or under water) or cooled (under water or in the refrigerator).

Dalia has two different tips:

  • A rounded tip designed to help with your Kegel exercises
  • A smaller pointed tip for G-spot stimulation or clitoral stimulation

You can use any type of personal lubricant with Dalia, but we recommend using silicone lubricant. Dalia can be used alone or during couples play.


The Fun Factory Limba Flex is a bendable strap on luxury dildo for personalized prostate (or G-spot) play.

The Limba Flex fits your body perfectly and hits exactly the right spot every time. A firm wire inside is encased in premium silicone, which allows this luxury dildo to flex and bend. Once you bend the Limba Flex, it holds its position until you bend it again.

Long and slim, Limba Flex is perfect for thrusting, and its super thin base allows you to be closer than ever to your partner. The smooth, tapered tip makes anal play easy and comfortable. You can also use the Limba Flex for hands-free solo play as the base suctions to smooth, flat surfaces.

The Limba Flex is available in two sizes, each with a slightly different shape.

  • Small | 4.7″ x 1.1″
  • Medium | 6.8″x 1.2″




Measuring at 7.52 inches in length, the Magnum luxury dildo has a stable base, which features a strong low profile suction cup, and is harness compatible.

Magnum is excellent for strap on play. It’s extra thin base lets you get closer than ever to your partner. With its long length and not-too-rigid shaft, the Magnum is easy to control and great for lots of different bodies and positions. It’s also a flexible dildo. So, it moves with the receiver for greater comfort.

Magnum is a high end dildo made of 100% smooth silicone making it easy to insert. Flexible yet firm, this luxury dildo is gentle to the body. Its shaft with just the hint of a head makes it attractive whether you like a realistic or non-phallic dildo.


The Tantus Silkis both smooth and simple dildo and is ideal if you want fullness without a phallic shape.

One of the first companies in the silicone arena, Tantus specializes in creating luxury strap on dildos that are more realistically-sized and worked with the body’s most sensitive areas in mind. This makes the Tantus Silk the perfect choice for a first high end dildo.

The Tantus Silk is flexible and bendable, yet it is still firm enough so that it springs back to its original shape.

This luxury dildo is made from Tantus’ own unique formula of 100% ultra-premium silicone, which makes it hypoallergenic, non-toxic, phthalate free, odorless, boilable, bleachable and even dishwasher safe!


  • Small | 4.25″l x .8″ d | Makes an excellent warm up toy and first dildo
  • Medium | 5.25″l x 1.1″ d
  • Large | 7″l x 1.5″ d


The Nexus Banx is a silicone hollow luxury strap on dildo. Banx is an excellent dildo for someone who experiences Erectile Dysfunction.

Made of 100% body-safe smooth silicone, Banx can be used with a strap on harness with a 2″ o-ring.


The Vedo Rialto is a luxury dildo with two powerful motors with 10 vibrations modes and 6 intensity levels.

The simple design and realistic tip of this high end dildo allows for easy entry, and the long shaft provides gentle fullness.

Rialto is made from velvety smooth silicone and a flexible shaft that feels like a real penis.

Rialto is 100% waterproof and is USB rechargeable.


The Naked Addiction 9″ thrusting luxury dildo is a remote controlled that has a suction cup base and is harness compatible.

With the best and safest way to cure silicone, Naked Addiction’s silicone is the most premium. Unlike traditionally cured silicones, platinum cured silicone does not use peroxides as part of the curing process.

With IncrediFeel technology, this superior silicone has an ultra realistic feel. Unbelievably soft to the touch, yet firm where needed, the Naked Addiction has hyper realistic textures and veins in the material.

This luxury sex toy has a variety of slow to very fast thrusting actions for varied stimulation.

Compatible with most harnesses, this luxury strapon dildo is sculpted to replicate the human body with its realistic feel and shape.

The wireless remote control makes this high end dildo easy to use during solo or couples play. The Naked Addiction dildo has independently controlled vibrations & rotations with 7 speeds.


Sculpted to replicate the human body with its realistic feel and sculpted precision tip, the Femme Funn Turbo Shaft 2.0 is a classic shaped remote-controlled vibrating and rotating luxury strap on dildo.

The Turbo Shaft 2.0 rotates in full 360 degrees at 8 powerful vibration modes. The “Boost Button” is excellent for those times that you need a little extra something to get you to the orgasm finish line.

Turbo Shaft’s wireless remote control makes it easy to use during solo or couples play.


Contoured to fit the body perfectly, the Tantus Feeldoe strapless strap on dildo combines the excitement of strap on sex, and mutual penetration, without the need for a strap on harness. Without a harness, you can feel more physically and intimately connected to your partner.

The Feeldoe works by utilizing the internal vaginal or anal muscles to hold the toy’s bulb in place while allowing free movement of the shaft of the dildo. This gives a strong hold that allows for thrusting without fear of the toy shifting out of place.

The shaft end of this luxury dildo and silicone sex toy comes up at a natural angle to penetrate your partner’s sweet spots for ultimate pleasure. Each Feeldoe has small ridges on the shaft that can rub against the wearer’s clitoris during penetration, allowing the wearer and receiver to feel simultaneous internal stimulation.

The vibrating Feeldoe includes a vibrating bullet that can be inserted at the base of the toy (a drop of lubricant in the vibrator cavity allows for easier removal). With the 2.25″ x .625″ waterproof and removable bullet vibrator, you feel more sensation and vibration throughout the entire dildo.