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How To Choose A Vibrator | A Sex Educator's Guide

How to Choose a Vibrator


For Beginners

If you are new to vibrators and don't know where to begin start with clitoral stimulation with either a bullet vibe, a finger vibe, or an external vibrator.

If you are new to vibrators and don't know where to begin start with clitoral stimulation with either a bullet vibe, a finger vibe, or an external vibrator.

Clitoral Vibrators

Start with clitoral stimulation with either a bullet vibrator, a finger vibrator, wand massager, or a clitoral vibrator.

Why?

About 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm and are unable to have orgasms through sex alone. Therefore, a design with good clitoral stimulation is an excellent place to start. Keep in mind that although most vibrators can stimulate the clitoris, certain shapes are better than others.

Keep in mind that although most vibrators can stimulate the clitoris, certain shapes are better than others. Smaller shapes like bullet and finger vibes focus directly and just on the clitoris.

Larger external vibrators are designed to conform to the curves of your body and make contact directly with the clitoris and vulva. Usually, they are more powerful and offer more speeds and/or patterns than a smaller vibrator.

Wand massagers are also clitoral vibrators but have a large handle and have either plug-in corded electric power or are rechargeable. This type of clitoral vibrator is usually very powerful.

For Advanced Users

Stimulation Types

Internal Stimulation - Internal vibrators are much longer than clitoral vibrators and are easy to hold during insertion. Whether you desire a sense of fullness or want to focus on the G-spot (those vibrators usually have a curved tip), there's plenty to choose from. These luxury vibrators can also be used as clitoral vibrators, as well.

Internal & Clitoral Stimulation - Dual stimulation or rabbit vibrators give you lots of options. You can choose to stimulate the clitoris or the G-spot or both at the same time.

Clitoral Stimulation During Sex - If you are interested in clitoral stimulation during sex, then Vibrating Penis Rings or Couples Vibrators are your best option.

Power - Consider trying a more powerful vibrator or an electric vibrator.

Versatility - Some vibrators are more versatile than others where they can be used for clitoral, G-spot or anal stimulation. Hands-free vibrators are excellent sex toys that free your hands so that they can do other pleasurable things!

Pulsator - A pulsator is NOT a vibrator. A pulsating sex toy stimulates the back and forth movement of penetration. When using a pulsator, some women find that using a clitoral vibrator as well makes the orgasm even better.

Additional Items to Consider

Size - Does size matter? Um...YES! If the vibrator is too big and makes you or your partner uncomfortable, then it's not for you.

Power - How many speeds or pulse patterns do you want? Do you enjoy a steady pulse or do you like to mix it up?

Batteries - Most luxury vibrators are now rechargeable so you don't have to worry about running out of batteries or your vibrator running out of juice. Convenience is key and green is sexy. Rechargeable vibrators are more expensive than battery operated vibrators, but think how much you will be saving.

Volume - No one wants a loud vibrator. It's not only distracting, but your roommate or children might hear. Luckily, luxury vibrators (except electric vibrators) are all virtually silent.

Material - Many sex toys are made with chemicals that you wouldn't want inside your body, like phthalates. Phthalates are chemicals used to soften PVC rubber. Luxury vibrators are made without phthalates and are body-safe. Materials include silicone, metal, thermoplastic elastomer/TPE (a soft and stretchy compound used in medical devices and not as durable as silicone) and Acrylonitrile Butadiene Styrene /ABS (a common thermoplastic that is used in many consumer goods-not as soft as silicone or TPE). Read more about sex toy materials.

Lastly, don't forget to clean your new vibrator before AND after each use with the most essential sex accessory - a sex toy cleaner!

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