This post was last updated on August, 2, 2020 at 10:55 a.m.
Your honeymoon is the perfect time to experience with sex toys! See My Secret Luxury's picks for the 12 Best Honeymoon Sex Toys.
It's wedding season. For brides (and the grooms that help), planning a wedding is stressful and expensive, yet it turns out to be something beautiful and memorable. So much goes into planning a wedding that many couples are exhausted by the time the honeymoon happens. However, the honeymoon is just as important as the actual wedding because it's your first chance to truly be with your new partner and relax after months/years of preparation and planning.
Besides catching up on sleep, the best part of a honeymoon is the honeymoon sex!
Luxury sex toys are an excellent way to add more variety and fun into your several times a day love-making sessions. According to a survey put out by upscale sex retailer LELO, 67% of couples use sex toys on their honeymoons.
Why Use Sex Toys?
Sex toys are designed to stimulate your most pleasurable areas, such as the clitoris, G-spot, and prostate. They help you figure out what feels good and brings you to orgasm, all good things to know for yourself and to share with a partner.
Sex Tip: Approximately 70% of women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, which means that penis-in-vagina sex will not make some women orgasm.
Adult sex toys are called "toys" for a reason - they add pleasure, fun, and playfulness to your sex life and relationship. They let you explore what feels good and experiment with new types of sensation.
Sex toys are also sexual wellness tools. Taking care of your sexual health and wellness is important. Good sexual health leads to orgasms, which have lots of health benefits!
Read about the 18 health benefits of orgasms here.
Sex toys help enhance your sex life and help you have more sexual desire, orgasms, and overall sexual satisfaction. Who doesn't want that?
How to Introduce Sex Toys
Bringing toys into the bedroom can be stressful if you haven’t done it before. But there are some simple things you can do to make it easier.
First of all, like other sex acts, using toys with your partner should be consensual. Even if you’ve talked about it in the past, it’s always a good idea to check in before or during sex to see if they’re comfortable with it.
If you’ve never had the conversation before, start with a toy that’s small, non-phallic and more discreetly shaped so they’re a little less threatening to your partner. Have the toy within a reaching distance of wherever you’re having sex and make sure it’s clean.
Your honeymoon is the perfect place to introduce a sex toy if you haven't already done so. No one knows you and you will never see anyone from your honeymoon again.
If your partner is hesitant about using toys it could be because they think that they will be replaced or you won’t be able to enjoy sex anymore together. Focus on the benefits of using toys, specifically together. Using toys feels better for both of you, helps mix things up and keep things new and fun. Also, sex toys help each partner get the stimulation everyone needs to orgasm. Finally, the majority of sex toy users are people in relationships, and they are using them to enhance rather than replace their sex life.
Sex toys will never ever replace your partner - a person and a machine serve two different functions in your life. Toys are designed to hit your pleasure centers in ways that don’t always work during sex.
On your honeymoon, you will be sharing many new experiences together. This is just another new experience that helps your relationship become more intimate and you feel closer to each other.
What Are Luxury Sex Toys?
Luxury sex toys or premium sex toys or high-quality sex toys are products that are made of body-safe materials, are more discreet and in some cases quite beautiful, are quieter but more powerful than cheap, toxic toys, and last longer. Many of them are also innovative, rechargeable, and waterproof. Innovation in sex toys include toys that thrust for you, are controlled by a smartphone, or respond to your touch.
Learn more about why your should NOT buy cheap sex toys here.
If you aren’t sure if the toy you have is safe, look for rough seams, a rubbery chemical smell like that of a new shower curtain, and “jelly” or see through toys, excluding glass toys, of course. These are all signs that the toy probably should not be touching your genitals.
Luxury, quality, and safety come at a price! As with other things, especially sex toys, you get what you pay for. These products will not break after just a few uses, causes severe irritation, or wake up the neighborhood with their loud but weak buzzing. If a sex toy does malfunction, all high-quality manufacturers have at least a one year warranty.
Sex Tip: High-quality sex toys also include personal lubricants, massage oils, kinky and bondage gear and contraception. Just as with toys, all of these products are made with the best ingredients and materials available.
12 Best Honeymoon Sex Toys
Treat yourself and your partner to the best wedding gift with our picks of the best honeymoon sex toys.
We-Vibe Unite and Sync Couples Vibrator
The We-Vibe Unite or We-Vibe Sync is the perfect sex toy to use so that both partners can experience pleasure. This couples sex toy is worn by her during sex for extra stimulation to the clitoris and/or the G-spot. When the penis is inserted into the vagina, it also feels the vibration of this couples vibrator and presses the toy again the G-spot for extra pleasure. The We-Vibe Unite is the entry-level toy, while the We-Vibe Sync is adjustable and has a lot more features including being remotely controlled by your smartphone.
We-Vibe Tango Bullet Vibrator
When you are traveling on your honeymoon, you want to bring something small, discreet, and rechargeable so you don't have to worry about carrying (or finding more) batteries. A mini bullet vibrator, such as the We-Vibe Tango Bullet Vibrator, is a perfect toy to bring with you because it is so versatile. It can be used during foreplay anywhere you want more vibration, during sex to add more vibration to the clitoris or the penis, or during oral sex on the testicles or perineum or the clitoris or vulva.
Added bonus: The Tango also comes with an internal attachment for G-spot stimulation or a butt plug attachment for anal stimulation. See the We-Vibe Pleasure Mate Collection here.
Fin Finger Vibrator
Another fun toy to bring on your honeymoon is a finger vibrator. The Fin by Dame Finger Vibrator is small and discreet that can be used anywhere for external stimulation. This wearable luxury vibrator is designed to feel like a part of your body and can be worn between the fingers with or without a detachable tether.
OhMiBod Lovelife Share Vibrating Penis Ring
Vibrating penis rings are great sex toys to use together as a couple during sex. The OhMiBod Lovelife Share Vibrating Penis Ring is a stretchable soft vibrating ring is worn around the penis to help him last longer and have more intense orgasms. An added benefit is that when it is worn during sex, she feels the vibration on her clitoris. Yet another bonus is that she can use this luxury vibrator as an external vibrator to stimulate her clitoris during foreplay or masturbation.
LELO Bridal Pleasure Set
The LELO Bridal Pleasure Set which comes with a pearl-studded suede and silk blindfold, a small suede tickler and teaser with pearl detailing, and a couples vibrator that is worn during sex. All LELO products in this sex kit are all in white, of course!
My Secret Luxury's Honeymoon Sex Kit
My Secret Luxury has thought of everything and put the best honeymoon sex toys in one convenient sex kit. My Secret Luxury's Honeymoon Sex Kit includes theWe-Vibe Unite, Sliquid Natural Lubricant Essentials Variety Pack, and ON Arousal Oil.
Read more about Sliquid Natural Lubricant Essentials Variety Pack and ON Arousal Oil below.
Sliquid Natural Lubricant Essentials Variety Pack
Everyone needs lube — no matter how wet you are or how aroused you are — and nothing is wrong if you use it. In fact, it makes sex and masturbation better! There are many positives to using lube. It makes sex wetter and slicker and you feel more sensation. Also, those women who are naturally wet can reach orgasm faster with lube.
Bonus: Using lube reduces the risk of condom failure.
The best personal lubricant for your honeymoon is a variety pack. It's easy to pack, TSA friendly, and you have lots of options. Our favorite is Sliquid Natural Lubricant Essentials Variety Pack, which is all natural and comes with 12 sample packs. Of course, depending on how long your honeymoon is and how much time you spend having sex, we would suggest bringing several packs!
ON Arousal Oil or Gel
Made with all natural cinnamon oil, these sexual stimulants help bring blood flow to the clitoris. ON Arousal Oil or ON Arousal Gel kick-starts her arousal and natural lubrication process. All you need is a few drops on the clitoris, and in a few minutes, the clitoris starts to tingle proving that the blood is flowing to the clitoris. She will be so aroused that it will blow everyone's mind!
Lic-O-Licious Oral Delight Cream
If lots of blowjobs and oral sex is in your future, then you should bring Lic-O-Licious Oral Delight Cream on your honeymoon. Whether you hate the taste of oral sex or not, coat your throat and mouth with Lic-o-licious, a sweet edible cream. You will taste nothing but the delicious flavor of the cream, which keeps the tongue and throat completely coated.
Quickie Silicone Hand/Ankle Cuffs
These easy to use and travel-friendly cuffs provide lots of extra sexual play options. Whether you use the Quickie Silicone Cuffs has handcuffs or ankle restraints, this BDSM accessory is flexible and fits anyone. These cuffs are quick and easy to use without having to worry about keys or making a lot of noise. Also, these luxury restraints are soft yet strong and made with secure silicone.
Unless you use another form of birth control, we suggest that you also pack condoms for your honeymoon. (You might want to also consider bringing condoms as a back up to whatever form of contraception you regularly use.)
Glyde Vegan Condoms are premium natural condoms that feel and perform better. Thanks to Glyde's pure ingredients and ethical principals, these latex condoms are perfect for vegans, people with dairy allergies or even mild latex allergies (possibly stemming from the ingredient casein, which is used in other condom brands). Glyde's condoms are thin, comfortable, and their natural formula and double washing process address most people's top condom complaint: the horrible latex smell.
A Couple That Learns Together, Stays Together
You will have lots of time on your honeymoon to have sex, eat, sleep, and relax. Why not get some reading time in and read a book together and learn about sex education? You might be surprised how little (or how much) you know about sex and pleasure.
We recommend The New Naked | The Ultimate Sex Education for Grown-ups by Dr. Harry Fisch. This instructional sex book covers: sex ed basics that you never learned in school; men's and women's sexual needs and perceptions; shows you how to navigate communication, medical issues, pornography, bedroom habits and fantasies; and foreplay to improve your sex life. The New Naked will definitely help you achieve the greatest sex of your life—and a happy relationship too!
Need more pleasure-based sex education? Talk to one of our Sex Educators at My Secret Soiree!