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When most people think of a sex toy store, they think of a seedy store on a highway with a large sme…

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The Sex and they City Rabbit VibratorWho remembers this scene from Sex and the City?Carrie: I'm not…

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A while back, I did a post on lube and how to choose a personal lubricant. Sexologist and sex e…

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Mens' OrgasmsMost sex toys are for women and so much is written about the female orgasm, but what ab…

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Thank you Jimmyjane for making this awesome infographic about female masturbation!Just to review:86%…

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This post was updated May 25, 2020 at 9:13 a.m.What Is Sensation Play? Sensation play is ba…

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ot many of us are super models. You don't have to have the perfect body or be the most beautiful per…

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