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This post was last updated on July 28, 2022 at 1:39 p.m.
Do you want to try an anal toy but are not sure where to begin?
Anal play and luxury anal toys are a lot less scarier than you think. First let's debunk some common myths about anal toys.
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Anal Toy Myths
Myth #1: If you use anal toys, you are gay.
Fact: Anal play is a common sexual activity for people of all genders and sexual orientations -- not just gay men.
In the 1960s, the Kinsey Institute found that many people of all identities and relationships enjoy anal sex as part of their regular sexual activity.
The anus is an excellent equalizer because everyone has one. The rectum and anus connect to different nerve endings than the front of the genitals which is why anal can be pleasurable.
Unfortunately, a lot of people with penises express fear about receiving anal pleasure. They feel that they aren't a "real man" if they use an anal toy. Sadly, because of this fear, they are missing out on some amazing fun...and pleasure!
How you achieve pleasure has nothing to do with your sexual orientation or gender.
Myth #2: Something is wrong with me if I like anal toys.
Fact: Anal toys and anal play have huge pleasure potential, and they gets a bad rap because of taboos and stigmas.
Unfortunately, there’s a popular perception that using anal toys are for people who are not "normal". There is NO such thing as "normal". Everyone is "normal" in their own way and can benefit from anal pleasure. Regardless, neither partner should be coerced into anal play or agree to do it just for the sake of their partner.
Anal toys are shamed because no one talks openly about anal pleasure, and it's not discussed anywhere else in mainstream society.
And while many people enjoy role-playing and experimenting with dominance and submission, you don’t have to experiment with dominance and submission when you explore anal play.
Myth #3: Anal toys hurt.
Fact: Anal toys should NOT hurt if played with wisely.
If you start off slow, use lots of lubricant, and steadily increase the size of the anal toy, this will lead to a positive and non-hurting experience.
The misconception of pain when using anal toys leads some to think that only people into BDSM do it. While anal toys can be a fun part of BDSM play, those that are into this kind of sexual play prefer pain from impact play (spanking, whipping, caning) instead.
If anal toys do hurt, add more lube and go slower. You might not be warmed up.
See more about warming up below...
If that doesn't work, then stop. Don't force it. Pain is your body's way of telling you that something is NOT right.
Myth #4: You don’t need lube for anal toys.
Fact: Unlike the vagina, the anus does not lubricate itself. Therefore, LOTS of lube is required for anal toys.
We recommend using an anal lubricant.
When using anal toys, lubrication is a must. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce natural lubrication. Therefore, lube is necessary. Plus, lube makes using anal toys more comfortable. Anal lubricant, which is thicker than regular lubricant and protects you against harmful bacteria, stays on the skin longer (has a higher cushion) and provides a more comfortable feeling by reducing friction and sensation.
We recommend water-based anal lubricant when using silicone anal toys and silicone-based lube when using non-silicone anal toys.
Anal Toys Feel Good For Women and People with Vulvas
So, since using anal toys should NOT hurt, why does anal stimuation feel so good? No matter your gender, the rectum and the anus connect to the same nerve endings that goes to the clitoris, labia, penis and scrotum. This is why using anal toys can be pleasurable and can even help people who are struggling to have orgasms.
The anus has a lot of nerve endings and shares a wall with the vaginal cavity. So, anal toys not only stimulates the cervix (encouraging deep orgasm), at certain angles, it also stimulates the G-spot. Either way, the combination of stimulating the clitoris and the anus generally creates a more intense orgasm.
Anal toys are an excellent option if you who can't have vaginal sex during medical treatment or if you have a yeast infection, a UTI, or vaginismus. Also, if you are on antidepressants and SSRIs, sometimes it's hard to have an orgasm during clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration. Anal stimulation is another excellent option during those times as well.
Anal Toys Feel Good For Men and People with Prostates
Anal toys are the most effective way to do a prostate massage and experience prostate stimulation.
The prostate is called the “male G-spot” because of the amazing pleasure that you feel during a prostate stimulation. The sensation feels like the “start of an orgasm”, but for much longer. Plus, prostate orgasms often feel bigger, more expansive, or more full-body than orgasms from penis stimulation.
What Are the Different Types of Luxury Anal Toys?
Luxury dildos can be used as anal toys so long as they have a flared base. They are meant to move back and forth to achieve orgasm, but are not hands free. Dildos can be used with a hand or a harness. (If using a harness, make sure it is at least six inches long and has a flared base so that it stays put in the harness ring.)They are available in a wide variety of sizes, materials, textures, and colors.
Smoother dildos are best for anal play. For beginners, silicone dildos are recommended since they are more flexible.
Butt plugs are meant to stay put thanks to the anal muscles gripping the neck of the toy. These anal toys create a sensation of fullness without having to move it back-and-forth. They have a small narrow neck that expands to a flared base. During orgasm, anal muscles contract along with the muscles of the vagina or penis. Therefore, plugs intensify pleasure. Since the wall between the vagina and rectum is thin, many women like to use plugs during sex.
Butt plug sizes range from about the size of a pinky finger to a fist and are available in silicone, glass, stone, and metal.
Anal beads are a string of beads that graduate in size and are pulled out when close to orgasm. They stimulate the anal opening as it opens and closes around each bead. This feeling can induce orgasm or the removal of beads during orgasm makes the orgasm even better.
Prostate Massagers and Stimulators
These sex toys for men are specifically designed to massage the prostate. Some prostrate massagers vibrate for an added sensation.
Preparing For Anal Toys
First and foremost, trying something new should be fun and exciting. Once you try an anal toy, you might realize that anal stimulation is not for you. That's ok!
It's up to you whether you want to make sure your anus is super clean before starting with anal toys. Gently clean around your anus and use a gentle soap to clean inside the anus up to the first knuckle. You can also use an enema to thoroughly clean the anus, if that makes you feel more comfortable.
As mentioned above, personal lubricant is very important in anal play.
- The anus does not produce natural lubrication like the vagina. Of course, lubrication from the vagina can lubricate the anus, but you should always add more.
- The tissues inside your anus are less elastic and more likely to get small tears.
- Lube makes anal sex feel better!
We recommend using a thicker lubricant that stays in place and provides more cushion and a barrier to any bacteria. This lubricant can also reduce irritation from friction during play. Oil-based and cream lubricants can be irritating and you should never use spit as lube. Also, use more lube than you think you need, especially in the beginning as you figure out what feels good.
Anal Relaxer and Desensitizer
You might also want to try an anal relaxer and desensitizer. They do make it easy to keep going even when your body tightens up, but it’s a lot more likely that you’ll hurt yourself because you won't be able to feel any pain. Please keep in mind that pain is your body's way of telling you something is NOT right.
Anal Toy Warm-Up
To prevent pain and make sure anal stimulation feels good, a warm-up is necessary. The goal is to get you and your muscles relaxed. When you are relaxed, everything will feel more pleasurable.
Your warm-up should include an orgasm (or very close to an orgasm) prior to using an anal toy. When you have an orgasm before anal play, it increases pain tolerance, gets the blood to the area for more flexibility, and you are more receptive to accepting anal toys.
An external butt massage should also be included as an anal play warm-up. Use a butt massage to create excitement for the penetration of an anal toy. This will increase the blood flow and help you relax. A butt massage can include tickling, massaging, stroking, and licking the butt cheeks, perineum/t’aint, and anal opening. You can also use a small luxury vibrator on the perineum or anal opening.
When using your fingers, we suggest using the pad of your finger to gently touch/enter the anus.
Start small and GO SLOW.
The tissues in the vagina are more elastic than the tissues in your butt. So, when you are ready for an anal toy, you have to start small and work your way up to larger anal toys.
If you get your partner really excited, they won't be worrying about what will happen next. On a woman, with her permission ahead of time, try stimulating her clitoris and very slowly insert a well-lubed small anal toy.
Once you are comfortable with a small ana toy, move up in size (both girth and length). Have the toy within reaching distance, make sure it’s clean, and bring it out when you’re craving something extra.
Do NOT go from anal to vaginal penetration with your toy because of fecal bacteria.
After using an anal toy, you might want to go to the bathroom and clean up either with a washcloth, wipe, or taking a shower. Don't sit on the toilet and squeeze the lube out. Let those muscles recover and relax.
If you discover a little bit of blood on your toilet paper, and it’s just a tiny spot and goes away after 5 minutes or so, it’s probably because there was a little too much friction. Make sure to use more lubricant next time.
Whether there’s any blood or not, you might have a stingy sensation. You can soothe that with a little bit of coconut oil or a cocoa butter salve. It’s a lot like putting lip balm on, but at the other end. Don’t use products with scents or dyes on the anus since they can cause more irritation.
If there’s more than a tiny bit of blood on the toilet paper or if it doesn’t stop within 5 minutes, that might mean that you need to see a doctor. It doesn’t happen often (especially if you’re following our tips), but it can be a serious situation. Don’t delay, and be honest with the doctor. They’ve seen it before and telling them what happened will make it easier for them to give you the care you need.
Best Luxury Anal Toys
You are a beginner if you have never used an anal toy or have only used small anal toys or a finger for anal penetration. Stick with something simple and lightweight that is either silicone or hard plastic. Try a toy that has a diameter of approximately 0-1". Once you've perfected your first anal toy, then try add
For Intermediate Users
You are an intermediate user if you have had previous experience with smaller anal toys are ready to graduate to something bigger. It's recommended that you choose a toy that is approximately 1-1.5" in diameter.
If you haven't already done so, now might be the time to introduce heavier materials like glass, stainless steel, or wood. You could also introduce some texture or anal beads. Since the beads graduate in size, you can use as much of the toy as you feel comfortable.
For Advanced Users
More advanced anal users want something large with a diameter at least 1.5" or more. You could also try anal beads or something very different with 3 different points of vibration, larger anal beads or an anal toy with powerful vibrato
The Top . . .
LUXURY ANAL TOYS
BEST NON-VIBRATING ANAL TOY: Fun Factory Bootie Butt Plug
Fun Factory Bootie is a great comfortable anal plug for a beginner. The simple and super soft silicone butt plug offers flexibility with the necessary firmness for pleasurable anal play. The Bootie is curved for prostate pleasure (but pleasurable for those who do not have a prostate too!). Designed for men and women.
BEST REMOTE CONTROLLED ANAL TOY: B-Vibe Novice Butt Plug
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If you want to explore vibration, a remote controlled luxury anal toy makes experimentation and pleasure much easier!
The B-Vibe Novice Plug is about the size of a finger and features a slightly tapered design, which makes it ideal for anal play beginners. With 6 different vibration levels and 15 vibration patterns, you have lots of different options to play with.
This anal vibrator can be used with or without the included wireless remote control — which works from up to 30 feet away. The Novice Plug also includes a discreet case for storage and travel and is USB rechargeable so that you never have to worry about batteries.
BEST WARMING ANAL TOY: Tilt by Lora DiCarlo Butt Plug
If you are nervous about using an anal toy, consider a luxury warming anal toy. The benefits of warmth can help stimulate your blood flow, relax your external muscles during use, and enhance your overall pleasure for a more enhanced sensory experience from start to finish.
Tilt is a unisex dual vibration warming butt plug and luxury anal toy. The hands-free anal toy can be worn anally or vaginally while sitting, standing, or in a multitude of positions during partner sex or solo play.
Tilt is a multi-purpose, contoured G-Spot/P-spot butt plug with two independently-controlled motors for simultaneous G-spot/clitoral or P-spot/perineal stimulation. Its motors deliver powerful, intense, rumbly vibrations internally and externally, simultaneously stimulating two pleasure points at once. The sculpted external arm allows for simultaneous clitoral or perineal stimulation, while the internal arm stimulates your G-spot or P-spot.
Often seen in mainstream tech design, Tilt's warming function makes it even more comfortable to use, which make your experience more pleasurable. Tilt warms quickly to 104° F / 40° C, just above your body temperature, for a natural, sensual heat that feels like a warm partner. This anal toy delivers rapid, even heat throughout the material so you can let your body relax and your mind stay focused on your pleasure.
Uniquely contoured to be comfortable and wearable, Tilt stays in place during foreplay and sexual intercourse.
BEST ANAL TOY SET: Rianne S Butt Plug Set
The Rianne S Butt Plug set is a set of 3 silicone butt plugs in graduated sizes. Each plug has a gem-like stone on the flange for a touch of booty bling.
This luxury butt plug set comes in 3 sizes and is an ideal training kit to further explore and discover anal play. It can be used by any gender wishing to experiment in anal penetration.
FOR INTERMEDIATE USERS
BEST DUAL MOTOR ANAL TOY: PleX with Flex Butt Plug by Hot Octopuss
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PleX with Flex is a customizable and remote controlled vibrating butt plug with a unique flexible base that uses Hot Octopuss' patented Treble and Bass Technology.
Unlike conventional butt plugs that are rigid, PleX with Flex is designed to fit your body with extra comfort. Offering the ultimate comfort and targeted prostate stimulation, PleX features a flexible base that bends up to 90 degrees.
Ergonomically designed for comfort and vibration transfer, PleX with Flex is perfectly sized for all levels of experience. PleX features a smooth bulb shape that is tapered to deliver orgasmic vibrations to your booty as well as pinpoint prostate stimulation for those looking for incredible prostate play.
The Treble motor at the tip emits powerful high-frequency waves, while the Bass motor in the body delivers deep, rumbly vibrations. Adjust the Treble and Bass to find your perfect customized frequency.
This luxury anal toy features 5 variable speed settings with an additional 5 different pleasure patterns to hit just the right spot each and every time.
PleX includes a remote control, enabling seamless switching between settings without ever needing to touch the toy.
BEST REMOTE CONTROLLED ANAL TOY: We-Vibe Ditto Butt Plug
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Ditto by We-Vibe is a remote controlled vibrating butt plug that can be used during masturbation, foreplay, or sex for anal exploration.
Slim and flexible at the base, Ditto is easy to insert and comfortable to wear. Perfect for beginners or advanced users, Ditto's small size and flexible neck make it perfect for everyone. This premium butt plug has an asymmetrical shape so you can use it in a variety of positions.
This luxury anal toy stimulates with gentle pressure and rumbly vibrations and can be controlled by the remote or the free We-Connect app.
Ditto has 10 pre-set rumbly vibration modes to choose from, or you can create custom vibes in the We-Connect app. Partners can simultaneously control each other’s We-Vibe products, or one person can control both. Pair Ditto with the app to share control from anywhere, create custom vibes, and play together with other We-Vibe products.
BEST WEIGHTED ANAL TOY: b-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug
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B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plugs combine the feeling of fullness, pressure, and weight with vibration for amazing pleasure. Everytime you move, you will feel the weight inside the plug move with you. That, along with the vibration, is an incredible pleasure combination!
Made with the same design of the original Snug Plugs, Vibrating Snug Plugs feature a torpedo shape that allows for easy insertion, while keeping everything in place. When you're ready for removal, the flexible neck design and grippable handle make retrieval easy.
Available in 5 different sizes and weights, you will find the right size for your pleasure!
BEST TEXTURED ANAL TOY: b-Vibe Texture Vibrating Plug
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b-Vibe's Texture Vibrating Butt Plugs can be used for both anal and vaginal play.
Available in 3 sizes and textures, each luxury anal toy has a one-touch button to access the 6 vibration patterns.
Our favorite texture plug for intermediate is the SWIRL TEXTURE PLUG | MEDIUM | ORANGE.
The Swirl Texture Plug has rope-like features, this medium vibrating butt plug creates tugging and twisting sensations. Tapered for easy insertion and made from body-safe silicone, the Swirl Texture Plug is an excellent choice if you who want something more advanced .
BEST RIMMING ANAL TOY: B-Vibe Rimming Butt Plug 2
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The b-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 is a luxury anal toy and vibrating butt plug that incorporates rotating beads for an intense rimming sensation. The rotating beads also help relax the sphincter muscles.
The b-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 was designed to pleasure from the inside-out. The highest level of nerve endings is at the entry of the anus and the b-Vibe stimulates that area. In addition to nerve endings, pleasure from anal play occurs due to the shared wall between the anus and the prostate for people with penises and vagina/G-Spot for people with vulvas.
Using vibrations to stimulate the prostate (if you have a penis) or the A-Spot (if you have a vagina) can trigger full body orgasms. With strong vibrations from the powerful motor located in the tip, get ready for amazing orgasmic stimulation!
The rotating beads can work together or independently of the vibration. With 7 rotation modes, the Rimming Plug 2 can be operated with or without the included wireless remote control, which works from up to 30 feet away. This luxury butt plug also features a LED wireless remote control that works from up to 30 feet away making it fun for couple's play.
BEST METAL ANAL TOY: Njoy Pure Plug
The Njoy Pure Plug is an excellent anal toy for intermediate users who want to experiment with temperature play.
The Pure Plug can be heated in boiling water or cooled down in the freezer or a bowl of ice for a different type of sensation.
It is made with 100% medical grade stainless steel and is available in several sizes. For beginners, we suggest starting with the small Pure Plug.
BEST VIBRATING ANAL BEADS: B-Vibe Triplet Beads
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If you are ready to try anal beads, B-Vibe Triplet Anal Beads are remote controlled vibrating anal beads that are tapered and flexible for easy insertion and comfort.
The Triplet Anal Beads feature a slightly tapered design, which makes it easy to insert and comfortable while using.
These vibrating anal beads and luxury anal sex toy can be used by both men and women and they can be used with or without the included wireless remote control — which works from up to 30 feet away.
FOR ADVANCED USERS
BEST TRIPLE MOTOR ANAL TOY: B-Vibe Trio Butt Plug
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b-Vibe's Trio Plug is the only premium butt plug that is very powerful with three motors located on the tip, in the middle and the neck. The three motors allow you to feel more stimulation in different areas.
Upon insertion of the anus, the motor on the tip stimulates the nerve endings at the entry of the anus and relaxes the nerve endings for easier insertion. When fully inserted, this sensitive area continues to feel the vibration from the motor at the neck of the plug. Vibrations from motors at the tip and middle also provide indirect stimulation to the P-spot (Prostate)/G-spot. Finally, if worn by her during penetration, both partners can feel the vibration from the plug.
This medium-sized anal toy is a compact and seamless silicone plug that offers 8 vibration levels & 9 vibration patterns ranging from soft pulsations to fast and powerful. With three motors, you have a lot of options to explore anal stimulation.
The b-Vibe's Trio Plug luxury anal toy can be used by both men and women, and it can be used with or without the included wireless remote control — which works from up to 30 feet away.
BEST POWERFUL ANAL TOY: Lovense Hush and Hush 2
Available in 4 sizes, Hush and Hush 2 have rumbly vibrations and are extremely powerful compared to other luxury anal toys. Hush can be customized to a wide range of vibration levels. The app allows you to choose a power level which matches your individual needs.
- Sleek and smooth
- Designed for comfortable short or long-term wear
- Have a neck that was designed to ensure it STAYS PUT during use
- Have an ptimized base is comfortable, but flared enough to ensure it's safe
BEST VIBRATING ANAL BEADS: B-Vibe Cinco Beads
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The b-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads are vibrating anal beads that feature 5 flexible tapered beads with three powerful rumbly motors.
Experience the pleasure of 6 vibration levels and 15 vibration patterns, perfect for anal play enthusiasts who enjoy deep and powerful sensations and pleasure. Cinco Anal Beads are enjoyable as they go in and feel even better while being removed.
This luxury anal toy and vibrator is very easy to use with an easy-grip handle and can be used by any gender. Advanced users can enjoy the feeling of fullness from inserting all five beads.
b-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads can be used for extra pleasure during solo or couples play. When worn during sex, the Cinco luxury anal toy provides stimulation as it shifts during movement and rubs against your pleasure zones.
BEST ANAL TOY FOR PENISES: B-Vibe Vibrating Snug & Tug
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One part penis ring and one part weighted butt plug, the Vibrating Snug & Tug is a hybrid sex toy perfect for solo or partnered sex.
Penis Ring — The penis ring make erections stronger and last longer.
Vibrations — b-Vibe has added even more sensation to the mix with the addition of vibration. With 4 vibration intensities and 6 patterns, deliver intense pulses of pleasure to the prostate and anal canal.
Made from 100% body-safe silicone, the stretchy silicone penis ring is sized to fit most users for a harder, fuller erection. Combined with a weighted plug for a feeling of fullness, excellent anal and prostate stimulation, the ring and plug are connected by a narrow base. The smooth silicone ridge that connects the plug and the ring constantly massages the perineum – a highly sensitive area full of nerve endings and erectile tissue.
The design of this unique luxury sex toy has a flexible narrow base that makes the Snug & Tug easy to insert and comfortable for extended wear, as the soft silicone fits between the cheeks. As you move, your motion will tug gently on the toy, sending waves of pleasure from the base of your penis to your prostate.
The combination of a delayed orgasm from the penis ring with intensified stimulation from the internal prostate stimulation is perfect for partner sex, solo sex, or to enjoy discreetly for extended wear.