8 Best Sex Toys for Menopausal Women 2020

8 Best Sex Toys for Menopausal Women

This post was last updated on December 11th, 2019 at 09:38 am.

Menopause is a nasty word for many women. It changes your body, your mind, and your sex drive.

The change in your hormones from menopause effects how your body reacts sexually. You may not be as easily aroused as you once were and you may be less sensitive to touching or stroking.

Due to the lower levels of estrogen, there can be less blood supply to the vagina.  Unfortunately, that can affect vaginal lubrication, which means that the vagina is not wet enough for sex.

Little to no lubrication makes sex uncomfortable and painful. That translates to the frequency of sex going W A Y down.

No matter how you slice it, menopause usually means less sex and intimacy for you and your partner.

Sex toys help with menopause.

Unfortunately, many doctors don't know or recognize this. Why? Simply, because it's not being taught in med school and many doctors are not comfortable with using sex toys for sexual health and wellness.

Vibrators and other adult products stimulate pelvic blood flow, which helps to create more vaginal moisture. More moisture means better sex! Plus, vaginal tissues are thinner and more delicate making the best sex toys for menopausal women different from what other women need.

8 Best Sex Toys for Menopausal Women 2020

Le Wand Petite Massager

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$135

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Le Wand Petite is the smaller version of the Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager, a modern and rechargeable version of the classic wand massager.

This luxury vibrator has a silicone head, a flexible neck, and a long handle with easy-to-use controls that allows for smooth maneuvering. Vibration is focused in the head of the wand . . . instead of your hand.

The user-friendly size of Le Wand Petite is a perfect sex toy for beginners who like external stimulation.

Tantus Silk Dildo

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Starts at $34

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The vagina needs stimulation (massaged, squeezed, contracted) to keep vaginal walls active. This will help avoid thinning and drying by bringing blood flow to feed the tissue. The Tantus Silk Dildo is a perfect beginner dildo for menopausal women because it is slim, pliable and smooth and it comes in three sizes giving you lots of options.

(If you want a vibrating dildo, then try the Tantus Leisure Vibe.)

We-Vibe Bloom Vibrating Kegel Balls

 

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$119

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Maintaining your vaginal muscles and your pelvic floor is very important during menopause. Building up muscle strength with Kegel balls helps maintain the elasticity of the vaginal wall. Strong vaginal walls mean better orgasms.

We-Vibe Bloom is progressive vibrating Kegel balls that also stimulate your G-spot with powerful rumbly vibrations while you exercise. (Bloom can also be used as an external vibrator.) Use Bloom to strengthen your PC muscles in a fun and easy way. They are easy to insert and very simple to use. With three interchangeable weights, Bloom can be adjusted as you get stronger. With the free We-Connect app, you can add pleasure by switching between preset vibrations and customizing your own vibrations.

Elvie Kegel Exerciser

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$199

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Elvie Kegel Exerciser is a traditional Keleg exerciser. This sexual health tool features breakthrough technology and is the smallest pelvic floor exerciser on the market. The ergonomic, discreet and portable exerciser tracks your pelvic floor and Kegel workouts with personalized workouts developed by physiotherapists and other experts. It uses force and motion sensors to measure pelvic floor movement, assisted by the free app to help you visualize the exercises in real-time. The app also lets you know whether you are doing the exercises correctly.

Womanizer Clitoral Stimulator

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Starts at $129

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The Womanizer Classic and other Womanizer Stimulators can help you have fast and often multiple orgasms -- without over-stimulation. Using suction and vibration, the Womanizer directly stimulates the clitoris and the area around the clitoris.

We-Vibe Rave

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$119.99

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Find toys that are soft and have some bend to them so that they don't pinch, scratch or cause pain to delicate tissues. Menopausal vaginal tissue tends to be thinner and less elastic.  Silicone toys are firm enough to give the toy structure without being too hard.

The We-Vibe Rave Vibrator is a great toy for both external clitoral stimulation and internal G-spot stimulation. Rave is a perfect size (not girthy), shaped for easy insertion, and angled just right for G-spot pleasure. Plus you can control it with your smartphone!

Vaginal Dilators

After menopause, the vagina becomes dry, less elastic, narrower, and shorter. Vaginal dilators prevent your vagina from becoming too narrow/tight and keep your vagina more elastic. All of this means less painful sex.

We recommend silicone vaginal dilators or vibrating dilators.

Sex toys also include products that enhance your sex life and help you have more sexual desire like personal lubricants and sexual stimulants.

Personal Lubricants

During menopause, your body produces less moisture than before. Therefore, lubricant to the rescue! It just makes everything better and more pleasurable. Think of it this way: Would you go down a water slide without water?

Good Clean Love Restore and AH! YES Vaginal Moisturizer is designed as a daily vaginal moisturizer that's made with natural ingredients instead of chemicals that you normally find in most lubricants.

Another good choice is Migliori, a silicone lubricant that is not sticky or tacky and has vitamin E, which makes it silky smooth. Plus, the glass bottle and convenient pump top doesn't look like your typical lubricant.

A final recommendation for those who want something more natural than silicone is an oil-based lubricant. AH! YES plant oil-based personal lubricant is made with rich oils and butters is designed to enhance pleasure and replenish natural moisture without masking the skin and senses.

Sexual Stimulants

Sexual stimulants, like a clitoral arousal oil, also help with lubrication. They bring more blood flow to the clitoris, which kick-starts your natural lubrication. As a bonus, it also helps you get aroused much faster too!

Our favorite is ON Arousal Oil because it's all natural -- made with cinnamon oil, which doesn't burn but tingles -- and comes in 3 different varieties: Lite, Original and Ultra as well as the ON Arousal Gel.

Bonus: WARM Sex Toy Heating Device

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$149

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WARM Heating Device and warming system is an elegant and discreet vegan leather pouch and warming system designed specifically to safely and effectively warm your luxury sex toys. It is equipped with unique heating coils designed specifically for heating adult products. Powered by patented Tender Technology, in 15-20 minutes WARM heats products using a low-voltage temperature core. It is ideal if you experience temperature sensitivity or delicate skin from menopause or utilizing vaginal dilators. Its discreet design allows WARM to heat products while out in plain sight on a nightstand.

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BONUS: Ohnut Wearable for Painful Sex


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$65

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Ohnut is a revolutionary wearable that allows couples to explore comfortable penetration during sex. This body-safe, soft, and stretchy sexual health device helps you to enjoy penetration with your partner and not feel pain.

Ohnut is adjustable with comfort ridges that compress down and allows your partner to penetrate as deep as your body can allow without pain.

Pleasure and Menopause

Pleasure should not stop when you experience menopause. Sex toys and adult products make sex easier and more enjoyable during this annoying and crazy time in your life. They can help you feel sexy and happy.

Plus, they have useful health benefits for you (and your relationship)!

Do you want to learn more about sex and menopause? Host a workshop or class with your friends or other couples with My Secret Soiree!