Top 10 Best Clitoral Vibrators 2023

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What Are Clitoral Vibrators?

For people with vulvas, stimulation occurs in several ways:

  1. Externally stimulating the vulva and clitoris
  2. Internally stimulating the G-spot and vaginal wall
  3. Both Externally and Internally or dual stimulation for blended orgasm

Clitoral vibrators sex toys for women are excellent for beginners and newcomers to the world of sex toys, as well as advanced users.


Approximately 70% of people with vulvas need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Therefore, clitoral vibrators are a great place to start on your sex toy journey or if you prefer external stimulation. If you are a beginner, when you are ready, you can then move onto internal vibrators. Finally, when advanced and you know what feels good, you could then try dual-stimulation vibrators, a.k.a rabbit vibrators.


The best clitoral vibrators can also be used anywhere you want extra stimulation. Just like other types of vibrators, clitoral vibrators come in many shapes, sizes, and intensities.


1. BEST HANDS-FREE: Dame Eva 2


The Eva 2 is excellent if you want clitoral stimulation during sex but don’t want a large clitoral vibrator to be in the way. This hands-free vibrator fits snugly and comfortably under the labia majora. The wings help to keep Eva 2 in place without any straps or panties and can be used in many different positions.

The Dame Eva is a hands-free vibrator that can be used during sex so that both partners can orgasm together. The Dame Eva 2is:

  • 8% Smaller than the original for a better fit
  • 10% Lighter than original
  • Shorter wings and a slightly different profile for better all-around fit
  • Simple to use with button at the top
  • 100% waterproof
  • Includes charging base/travel case


2. BEST BULLET: Femme Funn Ultra


The Femme Funn Ultra Bullet Vibrator is one of the most powerful mini clitoral vibrators on the market!

The Ultra Bullet is powerful and very easy to use. This 100% silicone, inside and out luxury vibrator has one button to push with 20 vibration modes. The Femme Funn Ultra is small, lightweight, and 100% waterproof.

3. BEST FINGER: Fin by Dame Products


Fin is a discreet and versatile finger vibrator that can be used anywhere for external stimulation.

This wearable luxury clitoral vibrator is designed to feel like a part of the body, so wearers can be a part of something amazing. Worn between the fingers with or without a detachable tether, Fin offers three vibration speeds of vibration.

Fin’s vibrations feel different at each end of its body:

  1. One side offers pin-point stimulation, which is great for clitoral stimulation.
  2. The other side is soft and squishy.

Vibrations can even travel through your fingers by flipping Fin to the backside of your hand or by sliding it up to the base of your fingers.


4. BEST WARMING: Drift by Lora DiCarlo


Drift is a warming bullet vibrator and luxury sex toy for women. Featuring an angled curve to provide control and stability while held in your hand, Drift’s contoured tip features a raised stimulation point, delivering enhanced tissue stimulation.

Drift’s warming feature creates a lush experience, just above body temp, for a realistic, relaxing touch.

Often seen in mainstream tech design, the benefit of thermally conductive polymer heating with Drift results in quick and consistent internal heating of 104°F/ 40°C throughout the duration of use. This temperature feels cozy and targets that heat on your G-spot, clitoris, and vulva for maximum stimulation. Drift delivers even, consistent warmth for enhanced circulation, arousal, and relaxation.

The benefits of warmth can help stimulate your blood flow, relax your external muscles during use, and enhance your overall pleasure for a more enhanced sensory experience from start to finish.

Drift’s ergonomic design curves to your body, pleasuring both outside and in. Its external stimulation point was designed to deliver deeper, more precise stimulation to your vulva, encouraging exploration.

5. BEST SONIC: LELO SONA 2 Stimulator


SONA 2 is a powerful clitoral stimulator and luxury sex toy that delivers sonic waves that stimulate the entire clitoris (not just the tip, like traditional vibrators).

That means it doesn’t rely on vibrations like a conventional vibrator, which only focuses vibrations on external nerve endings. Instead, SONA 2’s mouth rests gently around the clitoris and emits sonic pulses for contact-free stimulation. Therefore, your clitoris will not become sensitive and you can orgasm over and over again. These sonic waves and pulses stimulate the entire clitoris – not just the external part you can see and touch.

The clitoris is stimulated with a sonic hum for a different kind of orgasm produced by the gentle deep-tissue massage of sonic waves. It’s a prolonged climax after a sensual build-up. It’s a different, fluttering sensation that resonates through the entire body of the clitoris, building to an orgasm. This orgasm will be unlike anything you have ever experienced.

6. BEST TONGUE: Filare by Lora DiCarlo


Filare has three-dimensional pleasure technology that focuses on clitoral massage and feels like a tongue on your clitoris.

While most oral sex toys incorporate a two-dimensional approach to sex toy technology, Filare’s design allows the pleasure point stimulation beads to rotate in 3D, meaning the beads rotate circularly while extending outward simultaneously and is very similar to the versatile range of motion of your partner’s tongue. Aside from Filare’s ability to deliver sensations that mimic the slow, circular motions of a partner’s tongue at all angles, the external texture feels like soft, supple skin.

Filare’s dual stimulation points mimic the feel of your partner’s tongue circling and stroking your clitoris.

The inner pleasure points rotate while extending outward, delivering a broad array of unique sensations. Filare can be applied on the wrists, back of the knees, external perineum, and all over the vulva to gradually build intense sexual energy during foreplay or masturbation. While Filare doesn’t vibrate, the combination of oscillation and intense pulsations can replicate the best elements of a vibrating sex toy.

7. BEST WAND MASSAGER: Magic Wand Original


The Magic Wand is the most popular handheld massager and adult sex toy for over 30 years! Stimulating the clitoris and labia, this luxury clitoral vibrator is also excellent for a full body massage.

The Magic Wand is simple and easy to use with only 2 powerful speeds: strong and very strong! If it’s too strong for you, place a towel or shirt over the head to lessen the vibrations. It’s a great luxury vibrator for those who like a lot of pressure because of the long handle, which provides plenty of leverage.

The Magic Wand Original Massager comes with a 6 ft. electrical cord and never runs out of power!

There are also several different versions of the Magic Wand:

Try adding any of the wand attachments for different pleasure sensations!

There are MANY fake Magic Wands being sold. Every Magic Wand Original that My Secret Luxury sells is 100% guaranteed to be authentic.

8. BEST PANTY: We-Vibe Moxie


Moxie is a wearable, Bluetooth controlled external hands-free vibrator that lets you take the fun, rumbly vibrations with you wherever you go.

Moxie is designed to be worn under your clothes so that you can take powerful, quiet vibrations anywhere when you want a little more excitement and pleasure. Held in place by a slip-proof magnet, Moxie rests against the clitoris and vulva while you are lying, sitting, standing, or walking.

Use the wireless remote control to change vibration modes and speeds. Or, the free We-Connect app lets you or a partner control the vibrations from anywhere in the world, create custom vibes and play together with other We-Vibe products.

9. BEST VERSATILE: We-Vibe Touch X


The We-Vibe Touch X is sculpted to adapt to all of your curves and can stimulate any erogenous zone with ease. From clitoral stimulation to deep, rumbly head-to-toe massages, the smooth Touch X stimulates your whole body. Due to its slim shape, it’s great for partner play, too.

This super soft and flexible clitoral vibrator delivers deep, satisfying rumbly vibrations for intense clitoral stimulation, lay-on pleasures, or nestled between partners.

The gentle contours of this luxury vibrator caress all the right places – in all the right ways. It’s easy to hold design features a rounded tip for direct contact with the clitoris. You can also use the Touch X for broad stimulation of the vulva or anywhere you want vibration on your body.

10. BEST SUCTION: Womanizer Premium


The Womanizer Premium 2 is a clitoral stimulator that features Pleasure Air Technology. This luxury sex toy creates fast and often multiple orgasms — without over-stimulation — and the new autopilot function.

How does it work? The Womanizer directly stimulates the area around the clitoris using vibration and suction. The pleasure cap is placed over the clitoris, making a seal around the clitoris. This creates a comfortable suction that teases and stimulates the clitoris via microprocessor-controlled pressure waves. The end result is a different kind of stimulation with intense orgasms.

With the new autopilot function, you can experience an orgasm unexpectedly in a new way. The rhythm changes every you use the Womanizer Premium 2. Autopilot is a perfect feature if you are bored with other toys and want a unique experience every single time.

With Smart Silence, this luxury sex toy only starts when it is almost touching the surface of the skin thanks to its sensor. This not only makes it quieter to use but also makes your anticipation and pleasure even more intense.

There are many different versions of the Womanizer. Which one you choose depends on your budget and the features you want.


Why Use Vibrators?

Vibrators are designed to stimulate your most pleasurable areas. This includes the clitoris, vulva, and G-spot. You might also want to feel different sensations on your clitoris, vulva, or G-spot with the help of something other than a finger, tongue, or penis.

Of course, toys are also called toys for a reason – they add pleasure, fun, and playfulness to your sex life and relationship. They let you explore what feels good, add variety to your sexual play, and experiment with new types of sensation.

Sex toys for women help you figure out what feels good and brings you to orgasm, all good things to know for yourself and to share with a partner.

Plus, they never get tired like fingers or your partner’s tongue!

Sex toys are just another way to experience pleasure.

What Happens If You Don’t Like A Vibrator?

Give it at least 3-4 tries before you judge the toy. Whenever you try something new, the first couple of times you are focused more on the newness and sometimes awkwardness of the situation. Your body isn’t used to the sensation and your mind might wander a bit. Also, depending on where you are in your menstrual cycle (or even menopause), your body can react differently to sex toys. Your body has different needs during those times, which can affect how well sex toys can work.

It’s also important to remember that everyone is different and has a different body. What works for one, may not work for you.

So, there is no one “best” toy out there – there’s only the best toy for YOU!

Why Do You Want A High-Quality Luxury Clitoral Vibrator?

Luxury sex toys for women are higher-quality products. Would you rather have a smartphone or a flip phone? If price were no object, the answer is simple: you would want to have a smartphone.


There are more features, there’s more research that goes into it, and it’s made better. The same is true with high-quality luxury vibrators. They are:

  • made of body-safe materials (rather than toxic chemicals that are harmful to your body)
  • quieter
  • more powerful
  • rechargeable
  • waterproof
  • built to last a long time (and have warranties!)

Luxury sex toy manufacturers maintain rigorous standards for their products. They spend a lot of time and money on research and development. Thus, they stand by their products with at least one-year warranties.

High-quality premium vibrators do NOT have:

  • rough seams
  • a rubbery chemical smell like that of a new shower curtain
  • “jelly” materials/latex, which contains rubber

Luxury, quality, and safety come at a price! Remember: you get what you pay for when it comes to vibrators. High-end vibrators are made with body-safe materials. The best materials are non-porous and non-toxic. Medical-grade silicone is often used, which is excellent at transferring vibrations. Silicone sex toys come in many different textures and finishes. Other premium vibrator materials include Elastomed and ABS plastic.

How To Choose A Clitoral Vibrator?

Before getting started with clitoral vibrators, ask yourself these questions:

  1. What size clitoral vibrator do you want?
  2. Will you use your clitoral vibrator for masturbation or during partner sex or both?
  3. What should your clitoral vibrator look like? Do you want something discreet, where it doesn’t look like a sex toy?
  4. How should your clitoral vibrator feel against your skin? Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes. It can be firm, flexible, hard, soft, textured, or smooth.
  5. Do you want rechargeable batteries or continuous electrical power?
  6. How much power do you need? Plug-in vibrators have more power.
  7. Will you be traveling with your clitoral vibrator? If you will be traveling with your toy, you will want a travel lock.

Do You Need to Use Lubricant?


If you are using sex toys, it’s always smart to use personal lubricant.

Most of the time, our bodies produce enough natural lubricant to be comfortable everyday. However, if you are having sex or using toys, you may need more than what nature provides, especially if you are experiencing hormonal changes, on medications or experiencing stress.

Using personal lubricant is not a sign of a broken body or a failed libido. Instead it’s the most normal thing in the world.

We recommend water-based lubricant when using sex toys and silicone-based lube when using non-silicone sex toys or during sex or during sexual play in the shower/bath tub.

Should You Clean Your Clitoral Vibrators?

It’s very important to clean your luxury sex toys before and after each use. Regular soap and water can leave a residue and potentially change your pH making you even dryer. Luxury sex toys should be washed with sex toy cleaner.